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The Social Media Marriage Mess

Save your marriage from the social media mess.

Social Media's Place in a Marriage
Social media is not going anywhere. Food trucks use it to advertise, bosses check it before hiring people, and it seems like a new app to share your day pops up every week. We love social media, but we also know that it can cause issues to arise in some marriages. Today we ask the Divas what their best tips are for avoiding a social media marriage mess.

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18 Financial Tips for Marriages

These are fantastic financial tips for ANY marriage! Must read.

When a Saver Marries a Spender

Married to a Spender?
Married to a Saver?
It seems like, in most marriages, people are either one or the other. Savers feel nervous about their lack of a cushion. Spenders feel strapped down and confined. So how in the world do you make it work? How can you put your differences aside and balance the books - both in your check book AND your marriage? According to this infographic, spouses normally aren't on the same page regarding money...

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In-Laws, Not Outlaws

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When Dealing with Difficult People Isn't Easy!
While some marriages are blessed with fantastic in-laws, some spouses think of in-laws as dealing with difficult people and overwhelming situations. Whether you are living with your in-laws, dealing with in-laws who aren't supportive, or avoiding dramatic in-laws, we have some tips to improve your relationship and keep the peace!

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The BEST Marriage Tip

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One Super Easy Tip That Can Improve
Your Marriage Right Now!
 
Today we wanted to share the best marriage tip we've heard in a long time.
We love it because it's SO easy but SO good! 
In fact, we can almost 100% guarantee that you'll see an improvement in your relationship right away if you use it!  We can say that because we've tried it and it works! 

 

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16 Ways to Protect Your Marriage

These are fantastic marriage tips for every couple to keep in mind! Too many marriages end because one spouse is having an affair. Sad!

16 Ways to Prevent Your Spouse from
Having an Affair

Let’s face it - marriage can be difficult. It seems like more and more people are having an affair these days, and unless you live under a rock, you've probably noticed tons of stories all over the news, too. Heartbreaking, right?! If there's ever been a time to step up your game in your marriage, it's right now, and we felt like this post just couldn't wait. It's too important. SO - we put our heads together,...

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Learning to Trust Again….

Learning how to trust your spouse again.

Trusting and Loving After Dishonesty.
Trust. That is a BIG word. Being able to truly trust your spouse means everything in a relationship. You need to be able to rely on them no matter what. So how do we learn to trust again after being lied to, cheated on, or mislead?

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How To Feel Secure In Your Marriage

Feel Secure In Your Marriage

How To Feel Secure In Your Marriage
Today, we've partnered up with Aflac to talk about ten ways you can bring more safety and security into your relationship. Working together in these ten essential, stress-triggering areas is a great start to establishing more peace, predictability, and security in your marriage. {This post is sponsored by Aflac. We were compensated for writing it, but all opinions are 100% ours.}
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8 Reasons You Should Have Sex Tonight

Fantastic tips on the benefits of sex - a must read!

Sex...with benefits!

So maybe you've been married for a while. You are comfortable with your "routine" in the bedroom...but maybe it just doesn't happen as much as you'd like it to. You push the thought to the back of your mind, telling yourself that you seem happy enough, and so does your partner.
But are you, though?
The benefits of sex are real. And they are fantastic. Since you already know the how of sex, we want to tell you the why of sex - with 8 simple reasons....

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Why Porn Shouldn’t Be in Marriage

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The Effects of Porn in Marriage
We are always looking for ways to spice up the bedroom (just look at all of our intimate moments posts!), because sex is an important and fun aspect of marriage. However there is something we do not advise: porn in marriage. The use of porn by males is usually discussed, but we're here to tell you why it shouldn't be used by the two of you together and how it is a rising problem for women.

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