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How To Feel Secure In Your Marriage

Feel Secure In Your Marriage

How To Feel Secure In Your Marriage
Today, we've partnered up with Aflac to talk about ten ways you can bring more safety and security into your relationship. Working together in these ten essential, stress-triggering areas is a great start to establishing more peace, predictability, and security in your marriage. {This post is sponsored by Aflac. We were compensated for writing it, but all opinions are 100% ours.}
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10 Habits of a Happy Marriage

How to have a better marriage.

10 Habits That Make Marriage Happier 
We all know “that” couple. The one that is beaming with happiness every time you see them. They always seem to be gazing into each others eyes with so much love and connection—even when the room is otherwise chaotic or kids are climbing all over them. They are the couple that seems to always have it together. When things aren’t going smoothly in life, they still look unruffled and content in their marriage. You know who...

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8 Reasons You Should Have Sex Tonight

Fantastic tips on the benefits of sex - a must read!

Sex...with benefits!

So maybe you've been married for a while. You are comfortable with your "routine" in the bedroom...but maybe it just doesn't happen as much as you'd like it to. You push the thought to the back of your mind, telling yourself that you seem happy enough, and so does your partner.
But are you, though?
The benefits of sex are real. And they are fantastic. Since you already know the how of sex, we want to tell you the why of sex - with 8 simple reasons....

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Why Porn Shouldn’t Be in Marriage

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The Effects of Porn in Marriage
We are always looking for ways to spice up the bedroom (just look at all of our intimate moments posts!), because sex is an important and fun aspect of marriage. However there is something we do not advise: porn in marriage. The use of porn by males is usually discussed, but we're here to tell you why it shouldn't be used by the two of you together and how it is a rising problem for women.

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Date Night Intervention

Date Night Intervention

Date Night Intervention
What do you do when your date night gets stuck in a rut?? You call a date night intervention, of course!

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As you know, all of us divas believe that date night is super important! However, even the most dedicated couples can fall into a routine of always doing the same thing or even having good intentions for date night... but not following through! Yes, life...

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How Pornography Affects Marriage

How Porn Puts Your Marriage in Danger

Pornography and How it Affects Marriage
Today we're talking about a topic that isn't as fun as our usual creative date ideas and romance tips. And I'll freely admit, we're a little nervous to venture into these unfamiliar waters. However, as a site dedicated to strengthening marriages, we feel strongly that it's a topic that needs to be more openly and candidly discussed and studied. That's why today we're tackling the (sometimes uncomfortable and awkward) topic of......

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An Open Letter To My Husband

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Dear Husband,
I feel like the world must weigh on you a lot. In a time that says women don't need men to make them happy, my heart breaks a little for you. Yes, I'm sure I could survive without you. I'm sure I would have happiness. I'm sure our children would grow to be decent human beings.
But life without you?

 
You fill me with more joy and passion and completeness and life and love than I could have ever imagined. You are part of my soul. Perhaps I don't...

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Teaching Your Children By Example

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Use Your Example to Teach Your Children
L. R. Knost, author of The Gentle Parent: Positive, Practical, Effective Discipline, states, "Our children are watching how we live far more than they are hearing what we say. They are learning how to live by our choices, not by our words." We want to make sure that our children are learning the good not the bad. {Snatch the book up here if you want o read more!} 
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Our Top 12 Favorite Marriage Books

Our Top 12 Favorite Marriage Books

 12 Books That Will
Transform Your Marriage
 
Today we wanted to share a dozen of our very favorite marriage books with you!  These are books that we Divas have read and loved and whole-heartedly recommend.  We know that life is busy and we women don't always have a lot of spare time to sit and relax and read a good book.  However, we also believe that we need to be intentional about our marriages, and you might be surprised how small, consistent efforts...

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