Games For The Bedroom


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Let’s talk candidly for a minute. We all know that sometimes what happens in the bedroom can be a bit more of a “eh” time than an “ah” time. Sometimes the excitement can evaporate and become more of a “chore”. Like the highs and lows of life…the bedroom can also fall into this category. This definitely should not be happening for long lulls of time. Sometimes we just need to shake it up in THAT room and make it a fun activity between you and your spouse. This is the perfect time to introduce “Bedroom Games” into your intimacy. For those of you about to get scared away by that simple statement…have no fear. These games are completely created by you and your spouse. So there isn’t going to be anything involved that both of you are not comfortable with (and that is extremely important — you both have to be in agreement). These games are for you and your spouse to have fun playing together in an adult way, but not have to purchase the more “trashy” bedroom games out there (not that they are all trashy…I’m just sayin’). These are all games that you can either purchase inexpensively or you may already have them laying around your house.

Chutes and Ladders

This is a fun game that we all have played while growing up. So…naturally it would be a fun game now that we are grown up. We just need to modify the ol’ game board to make it a more adult-friendly version. All you have to do is grab your  Chutes & Ladders Game and a black sharpie pen. Then you and your spouse take turns writing on the squares different foreplay ideas. (I would recommend writing on every 6th or 7th square.) Now, as you play the game you get to either skip ahead (Ladders) or you have to start all over (Chutes). Play the game for as long as you can stand it! haha.

Jumbling Towers

If you don’t already own a Jenga game, I would recommend buying a cheaper version for this. I picked mine up for $5.00 at Big Lots (aka: Rainbow Jumbling Towers). Take about 1/2 of the blocks and write foreplay ideas or questions directly on the blocks using a sharpie pen (or if you want to make it really interesting write an idea down on all of the blocks). Then mix the blocks back in with the rest and build your tower. As each of you takes a turn pulling out a block you’ll have to do whatever is written down on the block until the tower falls. You can make a list of foreplay options for the “loser” to choose from if you plan to play more than one round.

Sexy Darts

Magnetic Adult Dart Board (2 sided)

You can purchase this game from Red Envelope or you can make your own using a regular Dart Board. You and your spouse take turns writing in each box just like the games above. Then start throwing! Oh, and did I mention that cheating during the game is totally encouraged? Go ahead and use that body of yours to block your spouse’s view. Distract him/her with any means necessary!

Striiiip Poker Dance

Hello! Have you not already played this game with your spouse? haha. Time to have a little more fun with it. Have your IPod or a CD playing of your favorite dance music in the background. Every time you loose a round (but really you’re both winners in this game – wink!)  you get to turn up the music and “striiiip” off a piece of clothing in the most seductive way possible. (It’s pretty funny in the beginning when you are taking off a shoe or a sock, lol!) It’s bound to give you some good laughs in the process.

Bedroom Twister

Check out THIS post idea from Corie all about making your own Bedroom Twister Game. By the way, if you missed our Anniversary: Intimate Moments post it’s well worth the read. Some great ideas in there for making an Intimate night even more special.

Sooo…you ready to play yet? These games just go to show that you can really modify any game that you have in your home to be a bedroom game. You don’t have to go spend a lot of money…all you need is a little bit of creativity to get the mood rolling…and a great sharpie pen! Oh, and don’t forget to set the scene wherever you may be playing your games. Clean up, light some candles, have some chocolate dipped strawberries and your favorite drinks close by for a night you won’t soon forget!

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22 Responses to Games For The Bedroom

  1. I think this idea is GENIUS! Great job, girly! Love, love, love all of your intimacy posts…..AND all of your other ones, too! 🙂

  2. This sounds like an idea my husband will love. Instead of writing straight on the games, you could use sticky notes on Chutes & Ladders (which I am sure you will enjoy moving to your benefit ; ) You could also write on tape you can remove on Jenga. Just in case you need to use the games for kids or your houseguests find the game you forgot you wrote such notes on. Could make for some explaining you don’t want to do. Thanks for the ideas!

  3. Strip battleship has always been one of our favorites. By the time someones battleship is sunk they are practically naked. Hilarious fun!!

  4. Love the Chutes and Ladder idea! After 19 years of marriage, we have definitely hit one of those “low” spots. I’m thinking I need to go game shopping this weekend! 😉

  5. just wanted to let you know that last night was date night and we played Jenga. Niether of us had played before and we really enjoyed the game in and of itself but it was made special by the sweet and/or spicy instructions written on about half the pieces. Some of the instructions included “write a love poem” and “give butterfly kisses” others were racier. This is definitely something we will play again as a couple and I am going to go buy a G rated version for the whole family to take camping.

    Diva dates have never failed us! Thanks for the inspiration!!!

    1. Barbara!!! Thanks so much for sharing! I LOVE your ideas for what to write on the blocks. Sounds like you two had a night to remember! 🙂

  6. Oh…total cost of the date 11.00 plus tax for the game. Made H one of his favorite dinners, chicken quesadillas from left over grilled chicken 🙂

    1. Honestly, you can’t beat an $11 date night that ends on such a good note! haha, oooh…chicken quesadillas sound soooo yummy right now!

  7. Fun, I agree things definitely need to be spiced up every now and then! When we first got married we made up a game using the card game “Skipbo” and instead called it “Stripbo” 🙂 We dealt out less cards than usual and winner got to take off one piece of clothing from loser each time. 🙂 Thanks for the fun, tasteful ideas!

  8. Great post–and some great comments. I think I’ll have to try out strip battleship. Definitely an improvement on the various dice games we’ve tried before. If you have an android device, there are a few “couples” apps out there. We tried Mattress Mambo and it was good. Any other games people have tried?

    1. Mattress Mambo!? LOL, that sounds like a good time right there! I haven’t really gotten into the apps out there, but I’m loving the idea of strip battleship. Too fun!!

  9. For the jenga game what is a list of 54 things to do? If anyone wants to share I’d appreciate it I need some ideas. Trying to spice up things with the hubby.

    1. Amanda,
      I used 16 directions 3 times each. 3 were blank. 🙂 Kind of a lose a turn deal.
      I looked up foreplay for inspiration of ideas. Some were very intimate so I won’t list those.
      Kiss neck
      Nibble ear
      Slow dance to 1 song
      Back massage
      Foot massage
      Passionate kiss
      His choice
      Feather play
      Her choice
      Gentle blowing on a sensitive area
      Kiss any area but mouth

      You get the idea

      First time we played this was amazing. We have a baby in our room so I set up sleeping bags and blankets on the living room floor. Lit a bunch of candles. Had dinner on the mattress and then explained the rules. We knocked it over twice so we ended up just turning the pieces over and drawing them one st a time. Still amazing fun!! Someone mentioned tape. The pieces catch with tape on them. Our adult Jenga is in my bedroom closet. But I love the sticky note idea for chutes and ladders. Especially since we still have littles who play it.

  10. Hi ladies! My marraige is needing some fun, some excitement and some spice! I know this will help
    Do yu ladies mind helping me by giving me more info. Like, where can I purchase these games?
    The bedroom twister, drip battleship, jenga game? And if thers anymore sexy game ideas PLEASE!!!!!
    HELP!!!!! I totally love these ideas!

    1. Debbie, yay for you! All of these ideas in this post you can just purchase the original game and alter it. The Jenga game I actually purchased a generic version, paid $5 for it, then used a sharpie to write on the blocks. There is a link to Corie’s post for the Twister game – you purchase the game, then use a sharpie to write on the circles. OR, you could simply use a white fitted bed sheet, use colored sharpie pens to trace out the circles, then make your own spinner. If you search on our website for ‘bedroom games’ it will pull up all of our MANY posts on different ideas you can use for the bedroom. You could even plan out an entire year’s worth of fun ideas to use. Prep them and have them on hand for when the moment is just right. Good luck!

  11. I made up a game out of Scattegories and changed it to Sextegories. I just took the cards and got ideas from the original game and changed it to where you’d have to think of something sexy, foreplay, funny, romantic, and sweet. The “loser” of a list had to strip 1 or 2 articles of clothing. Very fun! There are other games I made up for my sister when she was getting married for her lingerie shower….I’d have to go back and look at my files to find them again. Oh I did make up a game of Strip Checkers too! It just takes creativity and a playful spirit! 😉

    1. Oh my goodness – MEL! I absolutely LOVE that idea! I haven’t played Scattegories in forever. I would love to hear your other ideas for your sisters shower! If you don’t find them, I would love to see what you came up with. I’m always looking for great ideas to feature. 😉 Thanks so much for sharing!