April 25, 2013

Dirty Deeds

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Are you ready to REV up your intimate life??? Stick around because today I am going to help you do just that!

How many of you find that you are stuck in a routine?  Or do you often find yourself wondering what happened to that spark?  Maybe your romance level just isn’t as HOT as it used to be. You find yourself not in the mood more often then you are. You’re too busy with other things to make intimacy a priority. If that spark and excitement has fizzled through the years, I’m telling you right now, that you need to STOP allowing that to be OK and START doing something about it!  Such a pattern is destructive to your relationship on all levels, not just intimacy.

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In order to keep the flames burning, you need to add kindling to the fire. To do this, you need to get out of your comfort zone, try new ideas, recreate fabulous moments, and keep it spicy! You are not allowed any more excuses after today, because I’m going to help you kick things up a few notches with a sassy little “DIRTY DEEDS” idea that I came up with a few years ago. My hubby and I love it and so will the two of you!

Now that I’ve got you excited enough to make a mad dash to your bedroom, stick around just a little bit longer so we can gather some items first!

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COLLECT ITEMS

 Small Cute Trash Can

Lace Ribbon

Darling Dirty Deeds Printables {Let’s all say “Thank You” to Robin for making these glamourous printables!}

White Copy Paper, nothing fancy

Paper Trimmer

Glue Gun

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CREATE YOUR GAME

Now that you’ve collected all of your items, let’s put it all together. This is going to be quick and easy! Print the printables onto white copy paper.  Cut out each strip.  Take one or two blank ones and hand the remainder over to your spouse.  Secretly, don’t show your partner, fill out dirty deeds you would like fulfilled onto these strips.  That was quick, huh!  Now start crumpling up each strip just like you would a piece of paper you are throwing away.  Place all your crumpled paper into your trash can.  Using your  glue gun, attach a ribbon and the tittle tag onto your can.

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HOW TO PLAY

Are you ready to say GOOD-BYE to mundane, boring, and sizzled intimacies???  I’m imagining all of you jumping up for joy and saying “YES!”  There are 52 slips in this game, which means you’ve got a whole year of fireworks ahead of you!!!  Alright, let’s get you playing!  At the beginning of each week ONE of you will remove a piece of trash from your can. Don’t let your spouse see the deed, you are going to surprise them. You have one whole week to fulfill this deed. Don’t rush but don’t be too slow either {You don’t want to let the following week creep up before you’ve done the deed!}.  Take a few days to prepare, plan, and get everything in order to make this experience romantic and unforgettable.  Set up the scene, collect any needed props, take a few breaths of courage, get the deed started, and watch the sparks ignite. Woooooo, hooooo!!!  Soon you’ll be trying to “one up” each other – it will be thrilling! The following week it will be the other spouse’s turn.

If you happen to choose a “Pick Your Dirty Deed” slip, this is your lucky week because you get to do whatever you want!

Let’s say you are looking at this post and thinking, “I have no idea how to initiate these deeds or my spouse isn’t romantic,” no worries, we’ve got a few amazing posts that will help get you started - Anticipation Is Half The Fun, Follow Me Sexy Tease, and Setting the Mood.   These ideas should get you going, if you still need more take a peek at our Intimate Moments for a bunch of steamy treats.

Once your year is up, you’ll be wanting some more, I promise! You can either start the game again, keep the slips you loved, and add new ideas by filling in the blank cards from the first page.  Or you can take a peek at a few of my favorite intimate games… Deal or No Deal, A Game of Love, Not Your Mother’s Spice Rack, and Sizzling Truth or Dare

What are you waiting for!!! You’ve got this!!! Go get your dirty deeds on, already!!!

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25 Responses to “Dirty Deeds”

  1. Paige Paige says:

    Adorable Michelle! I love new and exciting ideas to add the spice!!! Can’t wait to try it!

  2. Traci says:

    Love this! Will definitely be getting this set up soon!

  3. Jennifer K. says:

    This looks great! I noticed a few of the cards just said “Pick a dirty deed”. Does that mean pick another card or pick anything we want? Just wondering. Thanks :)

    • Michelle Michelle says:

      Hey Jennifer, if you happen to choose a “Pick Your Dirty Deed” slip, this is your lucky week because you get to do whatever you want! If you choose to pick another card, remember you won’t have ideas to last you the whole year. So, I would suggest sticking with the original plan or printing off more blank slips so you can have fun throughout the whole year!!! xox

  4. Virginia Clark says:

    Love this. My sweetie is out of town alot, so his homecoming is pretty steamy, but this will help add new twist and change things up every now and then. another bonus, it will last us longer than a year.

  5. Sara says:

    Awesome!!

  6. Patti says:

    Where to you find the cute little trash can?

  7. JY says:

    Love Dating Divas!!!! This is so creative and awesome, I cannot wait to put together our Dirty Deeds!

  8. sivan says:

    really awsome
    can’t wait to try it
    just have to find a cute trash can now

    • Michelle Michelle says:

      Good luck searching for a cute one. If you find one, share it with us. Enjoy! xox

      • Daniela says:

        Love it!! I’ve seen small trashcans at Dollar Tree. I can’t remember if they were cute but I’m sure they can be crafted to look cute! I always love a small craft projects!

  9. Angie says:

    Exciting, Exciting!!!!! Thanks again for sharing.

  10. Daniela says:

    Hey can you give us some ideas of what we could write in the slips? I love this because I would like to change things up but am not very good at coming up with ideas.

    • Michelle Michelle says:

      I would love to give you ideas but your intimate tastes might be a little different then mine. Think of things you would like to try. Let your hubby think of things he would like to try. Write them down on your strips. There’s no need to hurry, leave your blank strips out of the trash and when you think of something put it in. You have plenty of ideas that you can try in the meantime. I have a post coming out soon that might help you with more ideas, so keep a look out! xox

  11. Kasey says:

    can they be done dirt cheap? lol

  12. farah says:

    Hey i cant find the printables link? How to get it print …?

    • Michelle Michelle says:

      Hey Farah! To grab the printables, go up to the section that says collect items. Under that section you will see this, “Darling Dirty Deeds Printables” Click on that link and the pdf will open. Enjoy! xox


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