Being the wife of a full-time student and being on a tight budget we do not have a lot of money for dates, but we know that we need them! Here are the 3 main things I have learned that you need to successfully have some “Romance On A Dime” (it is only 2 if you do not have any children! =D ).
The other aspect of “Time” is a saying I grew up with: “Those who do not have time, spend money and those who do not have money, spend time.” It applies to almost every situation. What are you willing to pay for and what are you willing to sacrifice time for? If you want some romance on a dime, chances are you are going to have to spend some time planning it or doing/making some things you may normally buy to save you time.
2. A Free or Inexpensive Activity. I am big on getting to know your resources. There are so many free or very inexpensive activities going around your city (or neighboring cities). Check out your city’s Internet site and see what is going on locally. Another really good resource is to go to your city’s Visitor Center. There you should find a bucket load of information on local things to do and it is a common place for others to hang event fliers on local events. I went and looked at my Visitor’s Center and discovered they had a list of “23 Free Things To Do Within the City” as well as maps and other lists of local hiking trails, ponds, and museum information. I left with my arms full of fun stuff to do!
3. A Free Babysitter. If you live near family who will watch your children, you have scored! But for those of us who do not live near family, you still need to get out alone every now and then. A great way to do this without having to pay someone is to make friends with your neighbors or people who live nearby that have children and swap babysitting. Most likely you have friends who would love a free babysitter too and would enjoy swapping kids for one or 2 evenings out alone.
Another option for a free babysitting is to start a babysitting co-ops. I have heard of co-ops where 4 couples will work together so each couple gets 3 date nights a month kid free! How it works: 3 couples will drop off their children at the 4th couple’s house for an evening out. Then the next week they switch which couple is watching the kids. This is always a great option if you have a good group of reliable friends.
Sometimes you cannot always get a babysitter and may have to do something with the kids and that is okay. For us, we sometimes get lucky and if I have my kids skip their nap, we can put them to bed early allowing us to have some time to ourselves when it is not late!
Whatever you do to have “Romance on a Dime”- have fun and remember the most important thing is spending time together. If all you have time for is to take a walk, then that is great! Just make the effort!
Now On To the Fun… A favorite activity of ours is going on a long walk, a planned hike, or just doing something outdoors. We discovered a lake that was not too far from our home. We were able to go there and enjoy our surroundings while relaxing and cooking some tinfoil dinners we made at home. We loved the tinfoil dinners so much that we have made them at home on the grill or in the oven on a “date night” in. Here are some of our favorite tinfoil dinner recipes.
Another new favorite of ours is to cook some tinfoil desserts. They are so easy and taste amazing!
- Spoon or fork
- Brown sugar
- Other spices (nutmeg, cinnamon, etc.) *optional
Step 2: Pack it full of brown sugar. You can add other spices if you would like. We have tested out a few different combinations of spices and sugar and we liked the plain brown sugar the best.
Step 3: Bake in warm coals for 5 – 10 minutes. Closer to 10 for us! If you are at home and happen to have some vanilla ice cream, this tastes heavenly with ice cream and a little granola sprinkled on top.
Banana with the peel attached
chocolate chips (one kind or a variety…whatever is on hand works well!)
Anything else that melts or tastes good that you love to eat (crushed candy bars, nuts, etc)