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Why Porn Shouldn’t Be in Marriage

The Effects of Porn in Marriage
We are always looking for ways to spice up the bedroom (just look at all of our intimate moments posts!), because sex is an important and fun aspect of marriage. However there is something we do not advise: porn in marriage. The use of porn by males is usually discussed, but we're here to tell you why it shouldn't be used by the two of you together and how it is a rising problem for women.

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Date Night Intervention

Date Night Intervention

Date Night Intervention
What do you do when your date night gets stuck in a rut?? You call a date night intervention, of course!

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As you know, all of us divas believe that date night is super important! However, even the most dedicated couples can fall into a routine of always doing the same thing or even having good intentions for date night... but not following through! Yes, life...

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Teaching Your Children By Example

Use Your Example to Teach Your Children
L. R. Knost, author of The Gentle Parent: Positive, Practical, Effective Discipline, states, "Our children are watching how we live far more than they are hearing what we say. They are learning how to live by our choices, not by our words." We want to make sure that our children are learning the good not the bad. {Snatch the book up here if you want o read more!} 
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100 Go-To Budgeting Resources

The Absolute Best Tips and Advice for Financial Success
We all know that one of the greatest challenges in marriage is dealing with budgets and learning to agree on all aspects of your finances. In order to help you {and your marriage} out, we've gathered all of the BEST places to find great budget ideas, tips and tricks!

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Organization is key when you're working on your budget,...

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Helping a Spouse with Depression

Overcoming Depression to have a Happy Marriage
Depression is a very important topic that hits close to home for so many people, including myself. It is true that depression in marriage can be a real trial for both the spouse with depression and the spouse that is trying to understand and help.

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Because this is such an important topic, we wanted to get real feedback from members...

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Infertility Support: Tips for Marriage

Find Support for Infertility and Strengthen Your Marriage
Most couples are able to conceive relatively quickly, but there are many who begin an uncertain and painful journey of infertility after an unsuccessful year.  While the causes of infertility are vast, the emotional roller coaster and unique set of challenges are universal.  Infertility is a major cause of divorce and requires effort and thought to keep the marriage strong, so today we bring you the advice...

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The Hint Box

The Hint Box

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to read your spouse's mind? Or have you wished that they could read yours?? 
Introducing...
THE HINT BOX
Problem solved!

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This is a simple and adorable craft that the ever talented Kiki from Kiki & Company helped us design, with tons of inspiration from Diva Gabby. The Hint Box takes some of that guesswork out of your relationship....

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Most Embarrassing Mom-ents

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Celebrating Moms and Their Awesomeness!
It's that time of year again where we get to celebrate the most special women in our lives... our MOMS!  I love Mother's Day and the opportunity I have to let my mom know how much she means to me. I know without a doubt that I wouldn't be where I am today without my mom's guidance and direction.  Thank you mom!

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Create Your Own Marriage Resolution

Create Your Own Marriage Resolution
My husband and I have really loved the inspirational, family-oriented movies that have been coming out lately. There is so much out there in the media that is demeaning to families and to marriages, that THESE films do just the opposite! Courageous is a film that depicts the real-life struggles of families and marriages, but also provides motivation that these relationships can be long-lasting, strong and worthwhile. This date night...

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