2 Minutes in Heaven Intimacy Game


Here is a quick, easy and creative idea from one of our reader’s Kathryn on how to add some spice to the bedroom routine!

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Looking for a game to play with your spouse that adds just the right amount of spice? This one might be just the one for you! I am not really sure how I came up with this game, it seems I always think of these things at the strangest times, but it all came to me one afternoon when I was trying to take a nap. Instead of sleeping my mind was rolling… We played the game that night and it was a HUGE hit with my husband.


Here’s what you need to play:

  • A dice with the numbers 1-6 on it.
  • Index cards (or any type of paper).
  • A timer set for two minutes (we used our smart phones).


  • Set up your two lists (his & hers) of what numbers go with what piece of clothing using your index cards.
  • Make sure each of you is wearing five pieces of clothing. You may have to use your imagination here! I wore a shirt with a cute sweater over it, pants and (lingerie-type) underclothes. He wore an undershirt, a t-shirt, jeans, boxers and socks!
  • Number 6# is your spouse’s choice.

Here is what my card looked like:
1. Cute black sweater
2. Pretty shirt
3. Bra
4. Jeans/Pants
5. Underwear
6. His choice

Here is what his card looked like:
1. T-shirt
2. White undershirt
3. Jeans/Pants
4. Boxers
5. Socks
6. Her choice

How to play:

1. Your husband starts first and rolls the dice to see which piece of clothing you will take off first. Whatever number it rolls on, take off the piece of clothing that corresponds with the number on your card. The catch is you can only take off that one piece! So if the number rolls on the number for your bra and you still have your shirt on, then take your shirt off, then the bra off and put your shirt back on.

2. Next, it’s your turn to roll the dice to see which piece of clothing your husband will take off. The same rules apply to him and he can only take off one piece of clothing.

3. After you both have rolled and taken off your one piece of clothing, set the timer for two minutes of play time! Play time includes kissing, touching, and anything else you want to do that does not involve actually making love. Be creative!

4. At the end of the two minutes all playing MUST stop and you each get to roll again. If one of you rolls a number that has already been played, then their turn is skipped and the next person rolls the dice.

5. Continue playing by rolling the dice and then having two minutes of play time after each set until no clothing is left to take off. When no more clothes are left, play one more set of two minutes and remember anything goes except making love! When the last two minutes are up, the game is over and anything goes!

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Thanks so much Kathryn for sharing your idea with us! For more ways to shed the layers check out something another reader sent in: Remove your Candy Shell 

About the Author: Sarina

I am a Spanish-speaking, theater-teaching, ballroom dancer with a conviction of the importance of dating my love! I met my Prince Charming when I was 15 years old and 12 years later we created our own happily ever after. I am thrilled to be a Diva!

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26 Responses to 2 Minutes in Heaven Intimacy Game

  1. Oooh, my hubby will like this! (except he will want to make “house rules” which will inevitably include me taking more clothes off and him keeping his clothes on…) 😉 Thanks for the idea! Super fun and also FREE! And able to be done when baby is in bed! All the best aspects of a mini-date!

  2. This was the first thing I tried off your website and I must say that it was a hit! I love the Dating Divas and have told several of my friends about you. I can’t wait to try more of these ideas!

  3. Thanks for such great ideas on here! I surprised DH with this when he got home from work a few days ago…lots of fun. He’s already said “Let’s play another game.”

    1. This game was sent in by one of our readers so I can’t say for sure, but it seems to me that when #6 is chosen you can choose from any of the remaining items left rather than have to roll it’s corresponding #. But hey – you could make up your own rules – that is part of the fun 🙂

  4. I’ve tried some of the less “risky” dating ideas with my husband! And I can’t wait to try this! I’ve already made up our cards!!!
    Y’all are awesome!!! Thanks so much!!!

  5. We were finally able to play this game last night. I must admit, we laughed through the first half. We felt silly and we NEVER do things like this!! It was fun. It was so nice to change things up.
    Thanks for this!! Next up, it’s Deal or No Deal 😉

  6. I can’t believe I’ve neer seen this ebsite before, it’s amazing!!I’m so doing this tonight. I can already picture the slightly frustated look on my husband’s face when the timer goes off! But I loved it because it will just add up the desire for the big finale!!

  7. We are a 50 something nearly newly wed couple (2nd marriage for me, 3rd for him) and just played the 2 minutes in heaven game as part of 7 day love challenge. It was awesome! Our favorite of all the things we did this week. Thank you for the idea!