25 Sexy Games To Try In The Bedroom

Classic Games into Sexy Games For Couples

Open up that closet filled with cobwebs and dust off your favorite, classic games because we’re teaching you some NEW ways to play! That’s right, we’re giving you ideas to make your own sexy bedroom games out of the games you already have around your house. We’ve put a twist on your everyday games to make them flirty and fun foreplay ideas. These fun and intimate ideas are perfect for foreplay. We love creating Diva versions of board games and we especially love bedroom games, but this time we wanted to give you some foreplay game ideas that use materials you’ve probably already got stored around your house. We’ve given these traditional board games, card games, and games of skill and strategy a whole new life with alternate rules—in the bedroom!

25 Fun Bedroom Games

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Turn Every Day Games into Flirty Bedroom Games

Ready to check out our list and get playing? We’ve made it super easy to find a fun game and put a new twist on it TONIGHT and the best part is that there are tons of levels (ranging from mild to super spicy) and ways to customize these ideas to fit your level of ‘comfort’ so feel free to adjust or skip games that are just a little too intimate for you! We’ve divvied up our favorite Diva-twists into 3 types of games that include 25 genius bedroom games:


Board Games for the Bedroom

These might just be your average board games but they’re played in a totally fun way! Read on to discover our new take on them and how to turn your board games closet into a wealth of bedroom games.

Bedroom Board Games

Board Games Turned Bedroom Games for Adults

1. Chocolate Checkers If you’ve already got checkers, use your own game board and some of your favorite chocolates, if not you can use our version! Chocolate is always a romantic treat and if you play in the bedroom, well, who knows what might happen! This classic is definitely one of our favorite foreplay ideas.

2. Paperless Pictionary The only change in this game is super simple: throw out the pen and paper and draw on each other’s backs… or anywhere on your spouse’s body! Physical touch is the first step to an intimate evening of creative bedroom games.

3. Naked Trouble So what makes Trouble such a fun game in the first place? The popping, of course! In this nude version, the popping is even more fun… start by assigning each number (1-6) a body part (you can each have your own list or create one to share) and then when it’s your turn to pop get ready to pop a kiss on your spouse as well, on the body part that corresponds to the number you popped on the die!

4. Strip Sorry When you ‘bump’ your spouse in the game, you also get to ‘bump’ off a piece of their clothing! It’s a double WIN each time! Chances are, you won’t be finishing this game but we have a feeling you’ll be diving into a whole new world of bedroom games.

How to Use Board Games to Make DIY Flirty Bedroom Games

5. Foreplay Chutes & Ladders Grab a permanent marker (or if you’d like your kids to be able to use the game again simply use some small sticky notes) and then take turns writing different foreplay ideas on each of the squares. (We recommend writing on every 6th or 7th square.) If you land on one of those squares, follow the directions and play the game for as long as you can stand it.

6. Love is Sweet Candyland Use your Candyland board and assign a frisky ‘task’ to each color OR spice things up with the cards from our Love is Sweet Bedroom Game that go hand-in-hand with the original game.

7. Candy Chinese CheckersUse M&Ms or skittles as your pieces and if you end up feeding each other chocolate and don’t finish the game, we’ll totally understand. Hint: If the M&Ms get a little melty and messy during your sexy bedroom fun, go with the flow help each other clean up in a delicious way.

8. Flirty Scrabble You can only use naughty words… try anything from adjectives that describe your spouse to flirty, dirty and suggestive phrases to actions in the bedroom! If you don’t have scrabble, you can also use Bananagrams – both games can easily be turned into bedroom games for adults.

9. Props {Trivial} Pursuit Choose six different bedroom products (one for each color of the pie), once you earn that piece, you earn the prop too and you can use it whenever you want (you don’t have to wait until the game is over)! Need some help deciding which props to use? Try some of our Favorite Spicy Products!

Card Games for the Bedroom

A deck of cards and a sassy attitude are all you need to make these classic card games the ultimate in intimate foreplay ideas. They’re not your grandmother’s card games anymore but we still think you’ll agree that these easy to create bedroom games are filled with sexy fun!

Card Games for the Bedroom

Foreplay Ideas for the Bedroom Using a Deck of Playing Cards

10. Strip Poker Have your iPod or a CD playing your favorite dance music in the background. Every time you lose a round (but really you’re both winners in all of these bedroom games–wink!) you get to turn up the music and “striiiip” off a piece of clothing in the most seductive way possible. Don’t have or want to buy your own poker set? No worries, just grab the super cute printables from our Strip Poker Night!

11. Deck of Desire Card Game – All you need is a deck of cards and our Deck of Desire instructions. It’s a simple and original foreplay idea to make your average deck of cards super spicy. Each suit stands for an action and each number corresponds with a body part, just try to imagine the excitement that a deck of cards will bring to the bedroom games in your marriage!

12. Intimate Uno Cash For this twist, the goal is to collect lots ‘cash’ cards. Every time you play a Draw 4 or Draw 2 card, you get to decide whether your spouse will draw cards to add to their hand (like the original rules) OR if you’d like to draw cards to add to a reserved ‘cash’ stash so you can store them up and cash them in later, like money! You can spend your ‘money’ whenever you want, just use this Value Menu which includes some intimate and sexy foreplay ideas to help you decide what to order! And whenever one player wins, they get to keep all of their opponent’s cards as CASH! If you’d like a more relaxing (but still intimate) evening, try the menu from our Spa Night. Happy spending!!

13. Frisky Go Fish – Hide the cards that would be in the ‘fishing’ pile in different places… your back pocket, stuck in your hair, nestled in your lingerie so your sweetie has to go hunting before they ‘fish’ them out… after a few rounds, you might even want to get creative about what you use to ‘fish’ out the cards… like your teeth! The foreplay ideas with this bedroom game are basically endless… go wild!

14. Wagering War – Whenever there’s a “War” make a bedroom wager. You could try wagers like, “If I win, you lose your shirt” or “If I win, you give me a massage.” The only catch is that you both have to agree to the other person’s wager before you can ‘wage’ war on each other!

15. Apples to Apples in Bed Simply add the phrase ‘in bed’ to the end of each combination for more hysterical laughs and to help you set the sexy mood! Some of them make almost no sense when you do this and sometimes they’re oddly on target and might give you some creative foreplay ideas!

Strategy Games for the Bedroom

Favorite games are turned on their heads and are ready for an intimate night of fun!

Strategy Bedroom Games

Fun Bedroom Games filled with Creative and Sexy Foreplay Ideas

16. Bed Sheet Twister Use your regular twister mat on top of the bed OR if you like to DIY, just grab some white bed sheets and paint. Hint: Bedroom twister is best played in the nude!

17. Naughty Yahtzee Assign each number of the die (1-6) a fun and naughty ‘task’ (like a sensual, one minute massage or a long, passionate kiss). As you play, each time you use that number as a part of your play, you must perform the task on your spouse. For example, if you get 3 of a kind in sixes, then you would perform the task you assigned to ‘6’. Choose the ultimate task (like taking it all off) for whoever gets “Yahtzee”!

18. Juicy Jenga Take about 1/2 of the blocks and write foreplay ideas or questions directly on the blocks using a permanent marker, then mix the blocks back in with the rest and build your tower. (If you think you’ll want to play the original Jenga again someday, simply use some sticky tabs to write the foreplay ideas on the blocks.) As each of you takes a turn pulling out a block you’ll have to do whatever is written down on the block until the tower falls. You can make a list of foreplay options for the “loser” to choose from if you plan to play more than one round. For some great foreplay ideas, use our Jenga Love Game.

19. Dirty Darts You and your spouse take turns writing ‘dirty’ phrases in each section of the dart board (or you can even use sticker labels if you don’t want to write directly on the board), then start throwing! Wherever you land, you’ve got to put on your most seductive voice and say it to your spouse. Oh, and did we mention that cheating during the game is totally encouraged? Go ahead and use that body of yours to block your spouse’s view. Distract them by any means necessary!

20. Fondue Pick Up Sticks Each time you successfully pick up a stick, use it to feed each other sensual foods covered in chocolate. If you need some inspiration, we just love our Fondue Date Night, it’s easy to make delicious treats and feeding each other into an intimate night.

21. Shadow Guesstures Hang a sheet from a doorway and put a light behind the sheet that shines directly towards it (desk lamps with a bendable arm are perfect so it’s easy to adjust!). When it’s your turn to act out the clues, head behind the sheet and let your spouse guess based on only your shadow. If you want to make things even more intimate, take off a piece of clothing for each one they guess correctly!

Bedroom Games and Foreplay Ideas Using Games You Have at Home!

22. Glowing Connect Four So this idea does require ONE extra material, but we think it’s worth it. Just grab some glow-in-the-dark stickers and add them to your pieces, then turn off all the lights and play! You could even combine it with this sexy stroll in our Glow Time Date and add some glow sticks for a night of foreplay ideas that are completely bright!

23. Candle Lit Guess Who Start with LOTS of lit tea lights and blow one out each time you guess. As the room gets dimmer, the game gets tougher and the mood gets better… why don’t you just see where it goes from there?! And here’s a quick tip: You can try this mood-making idea with all sorts of games. Think, Go Fish in the Dark, ??, ??, they’d all be perfectly romantic bedroom games by candlelight!

24. Munchie Mancala Use chocolates in place of the marbles and each time you get one ‘home’ feed it to your spouse! Want to take this idea up a notch with some extended foreplay ideas? Instead of feeding your spouse, place the candy somewhere on their body, if they can keep it there until the end of the game, you get to eat it off of them. Talk about strategy and sexy all in one!

25. Full Body Operation Each time you successfully operate on a body part, it’s your ‘token’ to exchange for one full minute of attention to that area of your body. Choose your operations carefully!

Well, are you ready to show your spouse that your favorite childhood board games are definitely NOT going to make you bored?! Pick your favorite game idea for tonight and then PIN this fun list of foreplay ideas on Pinterest so you’ve got it ready for another night.

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If you and your spouse love bedroom games, you’ll also want to browse our Favorite Sexy Bedroom Games.

About the Author: Megan

I find a way to be highly creative and highly organized all at the same time. I love discovering a new favorite book, sitting on my back porch in the mornings, mountain views, and random science facts! I married my high school sweetheart after dating for nearly a decade and I love meeting people who know how to make me laugh, like my husband who can crack me up by just looking at me.

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27 Responses to 25 Sexy Games To Try In The Bedroom

  1. Hi ladies! My marraige is needing some fun, some excitement and some spice! I know this will help
    Do yu ladies mind helping me by giving me more info. Like, where can I purchase these games?
    The bedroom twister, drip battleship, jenga game? And if thers anymore sexy game ideas PLEASE!!!!!
    HELP!!!!! I totally love these ideas!

    1. Debbie, yay for you! All of these ideas in this post you can just purchase the original game and alter it. The Jenga game I actually purchased a generic version, paid $5 for it, then used a sharpie to write on the blocks. There is a link to Corie’s post for the Twister game – you purchase the game, then use a sharpie to write on the circles. OR, you could simply use a white fitted bed sheet, use colored sharpie pens to trace out the circles, then make your own spinner. If you search on our website for ‘bedroom games’ it will pull up all of our MANY posts on different ideas you can use for the bedroom. You could even plan out an entire year’s worth of fun ideas to use. Prep them and have them on hand for when the moment is just right. Good luck!

  2. For the jenga game what is a list of 54 things to do? If anyone wants to share I’d appreciate it I need some ideas. Trying to spice up things with the hubby.

    1. Amanda,
      I used 16 directions 3 times each. 3 were blank. 🙂 Kind of a lose a turn deal.
      I looked up foreplay for inspiration of ideas. Some were very intimate so I won’t list those.
      Kiss neck
      Nibble ear
      Slow dance to 1 song
      Back massage
      Foot massage
      Passionate kiss
      His choice
      Feather play
      Her choice
      Gentle blowing on a sensitive area
      Kiss any area but mouth

      You get the idea

      First time we played this was amazing. We have a baby in our room so I set up sleeping bags and blankets on the living room floor. Lit a bunch of candles. Had dinner on the mattress and then explained the rules. We knocked it over twice so we ended up just turning the pieces over and drawing them one st a time. Still amazing fun!! Someone mentioned tape. The pieces catch with tape on them. Our adult Jenga is in my bedroom closet. But I love the sticky note idea for chutes and ladders. Especially since we still have littles who play it.

  3. Great post–and some great comments. I think I’ll have to try out strip battleship. Definitely an improvement on the various dice games we’ve tried before. If you have an android device, there are a few “couples” apps out there. We tried Mattress Mambo and it was good. Any other games people have tried?

    1. Mattress Mambo!? LOL, that sounds like a good time right there! I haven’t really gotten into the apps out there, but I’m loving the idea of strip battleship. Too fun!!

  4. Fun, I agree things definitely need to be spiced up every now and then! When we first got married we made up a game using the card game “Skipbo” and instead called it “Stripbo” 🙂 We dealt out less cards than usual and winner got to take off one piece of clothing from loser each time. 🙂 Thanks for the fun, tasteful ideas!

  5. Oh…total cost of the date 11.00 plus tax for the game. Made H one of his favorite dinners, chicken quesadillas from left over grilled chicken 🙂

    1. Honestly, you can’t beat an $11 date night that ends on such a good note! haha, oooh…chicken quesadillas sound soooo yummy right now!

  6. just wanted to let you know that last night was date night and we played Jenga. Niether of us had played before and we really enjoyed the game in and of itself but it was made special by the sweet and/or spicy instructions written on about half the pieces. Some of the instructions included “write a love poem” and “give butterfly kisses” others were racier. This is definitely something we will play again as a couple and I am going to go buy a G rated version for the whole family to take camping.

    Diva dates have never failed us! Thanks for the inspiration!!!

    1. Barbara!!! Thanks so much for sharing! I LOVE your ideas for what to write on the blocks. Sounds like you two had a night to remember! 🙂

  7. Love the Chutes and Ladder idea! After 19 years of marriage, we have definitely hit one of those “low” spots. I’m thinking I need to go game shopping this weekend! 😉

  8. Strip battleship has always been one of our favorites. By the time someones battleship is sunk they are practically naked. Hilarious fun!!

  9. This sounds like an idea my husband will love. Instead of writing straight on the games, you could use sticky notes on Chutes & Ladders (which I am sure you will enjoy moving to your benefit ; ) You could also write on tape you can remove on Jenga. Just in case you need to use the games for kids or your houseguests find the game you forgot you wrote such notes on. Could make for some explaining you don’t want to do. Thanks for the ideas!

  10. I think this idea is GENIUS! Great job, girly! Love, love, love all of your intimacy posts…..AND all of your other ones, too! 🙂