68 Ideas For The Ultimate Sex Bucket List

Sex Bucket List Ideas

Keeping the heat alive in your marriage is one of the major keys to happiness in your relationship. Whether you have a great sex life or love is lacking in the bedroom department, this post is for you! The Sex Bucket List will help the two of you keep things fresh, steamy, and exciting in and out of the bedroom. The best part… sex is free and you can do it (literally) as often as you two want! So no more excuses–you have every reason to use these bucket lists to turn your honey on!

To make these sexy sexual bucket list ideas easier to digest, we broke our ideas up into different categories, such as HOT ideas, steamy dates and ideas of how/where to do these sex bucket list ideas!

P.S if you keep scrolling you will find some FREE printables to help make your sex bucket list become a reality! πŸ˜‰

Try your sex bucket list out in bed with your spouse. | The Dating Divas
Get sexy with your spouse with these sex bucket list ideas.


1 . Tickle tease

2 . Shop for lingerie together

3 . Romantic bubble bath

4 . Play truth or dare

5 . Steamy make-out session

6 . Naked pillow fight

7 . Hot oil massage

8 . Whisper something sexy

9 . Mattress wrestling

10 . Kiss in the rain

11 . Send a panty gram


12 . Strip tease

13 . Sexy shower

14 . Sexy selfie

15 . Body painting

16 . Wear a blindfold

17 . Strip poker

18 . Talk about a fantasy

19 . Get a hickey

20 . Play hard to get


21 . Role play

22 . Naked full body massage

23 . Dress up

24 . Lap dance

25 . Use handcuffs

26 . Entice with ice

27 . Naked twister

28 . Edible underwear


29 . Try out a new toy

30 . Try out a new position

31 . Play a bedroom game

32 . A quickie in an unexpected place

33 . Act out a movie scene

34 . Get rough and wild

35 . Steamy foreplay session

36 . Record it


37 . Play hard to get

38 . Go commando

39 . Send a sexy photo

40 . Make dinner in only an apron

41 . Write a sizzling story

42 . Whisper something sexy while in public

43 . Have a wet t-shirt contest


44 . By candle light

45 . Just like the first time

46 . Scheduled romance

47 . Midnight wake-up call

48 . Listening to a sexy playlist

49 . On a bed of roses

50 . On a lunch break

51 . Like a doctor and patient

52 . Meeting as strangers

53 . While skinny dipping

54 . When you wake up

55 . Looking into each others eyes

56 . With the lights on


57 . On the kitchen table

58 . In a closet

59 . Out of the house

60 . In front of a fire

61 . Under the stars

62 . In a bubble bath

63 . In the car

64 . In a fitting room

65 . During a thunderstorm

66 . In the bed of a Pickup

67 . In the light of a full moon

68 . In a sleeping bag


Use our FREE Sex Bucket List Printables to make turning up the heat up in your marriage a reality!

This sexual bucket list book is ultra easy to assemble. Simply print, cut, and hole punch the pages full of sexy ideas for you and your spouse. As you can see, we used a clasp like this one to hold the pages together, but you could also use a ribbon.

Sexy bucket list printables in a book. | The Dating Divas
Printable sexy bucket list book.

The bucket list printables are full of the hot, heavy, steamy, and smoldering ideas above to get those fires burning out of control. As you move through these categories from hot to smoldering, the ideas get juicier and juicier. Yum! You can even find some steamy date ideas to use. πŸ˜‰

How to put sex bucket list printables together. | The Dating Divas
How to put your sexy sex bucket list printables together.

Of course, we want you to get creative on your own, so there is a sex bucket list page that is blank for you to fill out with your own steamy and dreamy ideas. You know each other’s favorites best, so work together to fill that list out together! πŸ˜‰

You may want to grab a few items for playtime in the bedroom to incorporate to your list! The Getaway Kits from Kama Sutra are a fun place to start! Similarly, we love and recommend Mentionables for lingerie because they are a model-free site which makes shopping for lingerie WAY more comfortable–and your sweetie can pick things out for you!

If you need help coming up with some ideas, we’ve got your back. Check out our Sexy Bedroom Games and Foreplay post, our Sexy Games for Couples, and all of our Sexy date ideas right here!

About the Author: Kaela

I am passionate about laughing, fitness, baking yummy treats, and of course marriage! ;) My husband and I pick up every summer and move to a new state for his job, which is perfect for us because we LOVE adventure and to travel! Our favorite places to go are Disneyland (of course!) OR Harry Potter World. The way to my heart is Dr. Pepper with LOTS of ice, video games (I'm a kid at heart) and Hot Cheetos. Yummy!

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    1. Rebecca, it is! If you click on the pink text “Steamy Bucket List” in item #1. of the Prep Work list it is linked to the file and will download! πŸ™‚ I hope that helps! πŸ™‚