Birthday Sex Date for Your Spouse

The Ultimate Birthday Sex Experience for Your Spouse

Birthday sex only happens once per year, so you might as well make it red hot! {Wink!}

Today we’ve got a steamy birthday sex date that will be a hit with your spouse–we promise! Included in this date are two sensual games, a sexy invitation to the date, and a Birthday Sex Wishes card for your sweetie to fill out.

We also created a playlist of birthday sex songs specifically for this private party, and we have listed five birthday sex ideas for him and five birthday sex ideas for her!

So, are you ready to gift your spouse the ultimate birthday sex experience?! If you said YES, read on!

Plan the ultimate birthday sex date for your spouse! | The Dating Divas
Birthday sex date for couples

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Table of Contents
  1. The Ultimate Birthday Sex Experience for Your Spouse
  2. 25 of the Best Birthday Sex Songs
  3. Birthday Sex Printables
  4. 7 More Sexy Games for Your Spicy Bedroom Party
  5. Birthday Sex Ideas for Him and Her

25 of the Best Birthday Sex Songs

Let’s start with the perfect sexy birthday playlist! What better way to set the mood than with some clean, sexy music?!

We wanted to make this epic date as easy as possible, so we created The Best Birthday Sex Playlist for you on our Divas Spotify account. We’re sure there are plenty of other birthday sex songs that you could add to your own spicy playlist, but here are the 25 faves that made it onto ours:

  1. “Shower” – Becky G
  2. “Soul” – Lee Brice
  3. “Party for Two” – Shania Twain & Billy Currington
  4. “Party” – Beyonce
  5. “Earned It” – The Weeknd
  6. “Dance for You” – Beyonce
  7. “Love Me Like You Do” – Ellie Goulding
  8. “Capital Letters” – Hailee Steinfeld
  9. “Love on the Weekend” – John Mayer
  10. “All To Myself” – Dan + Shay
  11. “Dance with Me Tonight” – Olly Murs
  12. “Why Don’t We Just Dance” – Josh Turner
  13. “Andante, Andante” – Lily James
  14. “Come On Get Higher” – Matt Nathanson
  15. “Body Back” – Gryffin (feat. Maia Wright)
  16. “Your Body Is a Wonderland” – John Mayer
  17. “I’m Yours” – Jason Mraz
  18. “SexyBack” – Justin Timberlake (feat. Timbaland)
  19. “For You” – Liam Payne & Rita Ora
  20. “I Don’t Wanna Live Forever” – ZAYN & Taylor Swift
  21. “I Put A Spell On You” – Annie Lennox
  22. “All Night” – Beyonce
  23. “Where You Belong” – The Weeknd
  24. “Heaven” – Julia Michaels
  25. “One Woman Man” – John Legend
We have the perfect playlist full of birthday sex songs for you and your spouse! | The Dating Divas
Birthday sex songs for couples

Birthday Sex Printables

Sexy birthday ideas start with these awesome printables! Like we mentioned above, this printable pack includes two games, an invitation to the date, and a Birthday Sex Wishes sheet. You’re going to LOVE all of these!

1. Birthday Sex Invitation – Every party needs an invitation, right? This sexy party for two is no exception! Use this birthday sex invitation to invite your spouse to a night they’ll never forget.

This birthday sex invitation is perfect for your own private party! | The Dating Divas
Birthday sex invitation for your spouse

Don’t forget to fill out the inside of the invitation with all the details your sweetie will need!

Invite your spouse to a night of birthday sex with this epic invitation! | The Dating Divas
Birthday sex invitation for couples

2. Birthday Sex Wishes Card – This Birthday Sex Wishes card will be a HIT with your birthday guy/gal. We know it! Be sure they fill out this card and give it back to you before the big celebration. This is important because you will be granting their wishes throughout the night, and some wishes may require some prep!

There will be no guessing as to what your spouse wishes thanks to this Birthday Sex Wishes card! | The Dating Divas
Birthday Sex Wishes card for couples

3. Sexy Would You Rather Game – This sexy game of Would You Rather will turn up the heat!

We have included a game board, spinner, and 22 sexy Would You Rather questions. We also left two of the question cards blank, so you can come up with your own! Simply cut out all the pieces, fill in the blank question cards, and tape the Would You Rather questions onto the game board. Whoever is celebrating the birthday gets to spin first! Once you’ve completed all six questions on the game board, switch them out for an additional six!

Sexy birthday tip: we recommend laminating all the pieces of the game, so you can use this again and again. You will also need a brad to attach the spinner to the game board.

This birthday sex Would You Rather is much more fun than the original version! | The Dating Divas
Would You Rather game for a night of birthday sex

4. Sexy Truth or Dare Sex Game – Have you ever played Truth or Dare? Are you up for a sexy version of the game?

We have 20 blank Truth or Dare cards for you and your spouse to fill out together. The “Tell Me” cards are for the truths, and the “I Dare You” cards are for the dares. Cut them out, fill them in, and place them in a hat, jar, or bucket. Take turns pulling one strip of paper out at a time and then completing whatever is on the card.

Play this game of sexy Truth or Dare to complete your birthday sex date! | The Dating Divas
Sexy Truth or Dare for a birthday sex date

Aren’t these printables the! We hope you love them!

7 More Sexy Games for Your Spicy Bedroom Party

Don’t let the fun stop after sexy Would You Rather and Truth or Dare! Check out these additional spicy bedroom games that will leave you sweating!

  • Strip Twister – Each time you take a turn you remove an article of clothing. This game makes you BOTH winners!
  • Decorate the Cake – Use chocolate, whipped cream, fruit, or sprinkles, and decorate your spouse’s body like a birthday cake!
  • Spicy Dice – Roll and see what you’ll get to do!
  • Sexy Pictionary – Take turns, and draw a position/fantasy while the other person guesses. If your partner guesses correctly, you do what the drawing shows. If not, time to start over and draw again!
  • Hide & Seek – Hide flavored lubricant on several parts your body, and tell your partner to find all the hiding spots! (This game is by Jordan D’Nelle: Physician Assistant, Sexual Health Educator, and Intimacy Coach.)
  • Ice Art – Use ice cubes to trace along your partner’s body, and have them guess what you drew!
  • X Marks the Spot – With a specific body part in mind, have your partner kiss your body until they find “X!”

Birthday Sex Ideas for Him and Her

This is where the Birthday Sex Wishes card comes in handy… No guessing as to what sexy wishes your sweetie has! However, we know not everyone is comfortable writing down their sexy desires. If this is the case, don’t sweat it! We’ve got some sexy birthday ideas for you.

Birthday Sex Ideas for Him:

Birthday Sex Ideas for Her:

  • Flower petals on the bed
  • A game of Sexy Jenga
  • A foot massage
  • Lit candles in the bedroom or bathroom
  • A bubble bath for two

You know your sweetie best, so we are confident whatever you plan will be a huge hit!

We have some epic birthday sex ideas for couples! | The Dating Divas
Birthday sex ideas for couples

That’s a wrap! What do you think? Is this the most EPIC birthday experience or what?! Enjoy! {Wink!}

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I am an avid DIY'er, a Disney lover, and an amateur foodie! Chips & salsa, chocolate, and Diet Dr. Pepper are a few of my favorite things. I'm married to my best friend who is literally my Prince Charming, and I'm a mommy to three darling kiddos! You'll often find me in the kitchen baking something chocolatey, or snuggled up on the couch listening to a good book or true crime podcast.

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