Flirty Fun… With Candy!

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Bring Candy into the Bedroom for some Flirty Fun!
We all know that in order to have a FABULOUS marriage…you need to make sure needs are met on every level…for both the husband and the wife.  Intimacy is an extremely important part of marriage.  It’s a special way in which you can connect with your spouse. We all feel that there are SO many fun ways in which you can keep the FIRE going in that area….that we try to pass a few ideas along each month.  If you are easily embarrassed or are not comfortable with changing things up in that area….you should probably skip this post.  {WINK}  We go into a little more detail than in previous posts…and it’s not for the faint of heart….it’s for those TRULY wanting to spice things UP!!  🙂

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So I ran across this article while I was online one day, and it is the full inspiration behind my last couple weeks of flirty fun with my husband!

A flirty appetite for your husband
a little su’um-su’um sweet
Sure Fire Foreplay!
Relax! LOL *Fabulous marriages know that foreplay is a fabulous word!*
Imagine this… You finish preparing for bed and come out of the bathroom in your favorite nightie.  Wait, what is that around your neck?  Your husband watches as you stretch your candy necklace – yes – candy necklace on one finger up to your mouth and wink at him as you take a bite.  That’s ALL IT TAKES!  Simply walk over to him and bare your neck like a victim ready for a vampire’s kiss… and let him take over any way he’d like.

Not feeling sexy?  Wondering why the heck you’re lacking motivation to be flirty at all? Hello! Awesome solution is to doll yourself up by applying gorgeous, full, long eyelashes!  This post tells you all the secrets to easy, perfect, sexy eyes.

Often it’s the goodnight kiss that is the gatekeeper to “scoring” or not.  One goodnight kiss sweetly says, “I love you, and I’m content to cuddle and fall right to sleep tonight” and the other goodnight kiss says, “I love you and can’t get enough of you right now! Bring it on!”

One way to introduce the other goodnight kiss is with my little friend, Pop Rocks.

Make sure he’s ready for your kiss as you get a fair amount of Pop Rocks in your mouth.  As they begin to party on your tongue, give him a surprise kiss he’ll never forget.  I pretty much guarantee he’ll want to try it twice!
Another fun kissin’ candy is Red Hots!   Mints are great and all, but there’s just something about a “hot” candy that is small and easily passed between mouths…   Maybe that’s not your thing, that’s ok, LOL.  With a few Red Hots before or during a kiss, it’s sure to bring some hot and new sensation either way!
Last, but certainly not least is an issue I know I can’t be alone in thinking…
Edible Panties taste gross!  So whatcha gonna do?  Yep! Make your own out of your favorite flavor of Fruit Roll Ups and Fruit By The Foot.  De-li-cious if I do say so myself.
Here’s a pair I threw together in about 5 minutes!
It’s not Victoria’s Secret, but it’s dang cute and totally flirty!

Fruit By The Foot comes with a design already cut in it so you just peel it along the lines and you have your “lacey” g-string sides without having to cut or take extra time.  Several styles of patterns come in a box.  Seriously, this is so simple and obvious, there is no tutorial needed, but if you want a whole other post just about “edibles” then leave a little comment, and I will come up with some more ideas! Oh, and if you have trouble making it stick together, just lick your finger a little bit – it’s all the glue you’ll need!  Besides you’ll be wearing it for like 1 minute before it’s put to good use!  *A-hem* What? You know it’s true.

Now when your MAN mentions he likes a certain candy, think of a way to “flirtify” it into the bedroom! I hope this gets your creativity flowing! Especially with the holidays right around the corner, there are always sweets around.  Put ’em to good use!
Rock on, Sistahs!



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  1. Hi!
    I like the fruit roll up idea! and the candy necklace thing is something that is already made into lingerie.

  2. Great ideas. Now if only we weren’t watching carbs right now… 🙂
    We’re collecting and trying out ideas like these on our blog as well for anyone interested.

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