Sexy Date Night: Explore Your Erogenous Zones

Erogenous Zones Map of Pleasure

We all know that great foreplay can lead to some pretty mind-blowing action in the bedroom, right?! But did you know that learning to identify and stimulate each other’s erogenous zones can take your foreplay and sexy time to game-changing levels?

If you’ve ever been curious about erogenous zones but are hesitant about the results a search of “erogenous meaning” or “erogenous zone meaning” may yield, don’t worry; this post has you covered! Read on to discover what erogenous zones are and how to use them to enhance your sexual experience!

This sexy date will have you exploring and caressing each other’s erogenous zones and pleasure points to reach heights of pleasure you never knew existed! And there are bonus FREE printables, too! Ready to dive in? Let’s go!

If you want to discover unchartered pleasure zones on each other's bodies, give this sexy date a try! | The Dating Divas
This sexy date night will have you exploring each other’s erogenous zones all night long!

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What Are Erogenous Zones?

So, you’re new to the concept of erogenous zones, or maybe you’ve heard that there are more than just the common pleasure zones to explore with your spouse? Well, if you’ve ever wanted to google “erogenous meaning” or “erogenous zone meaning” but feared what you’d find, here we go:

The word erogenous actually stems from a combination of the Greek words “eros,” meaning love, and “genous,” meaning producing. See where we are going with this? Erogenous zones are essentially areas of the body that are highly sensitive to touch and can stimulate sexual arousal when caressed in a specific manner.

The human body is covered from head to toe in erogenous zones that, when stimulated, can produce intense feelings of pleasure and desire. Every person is different, and what might be good for one may not be for another. Taking time to explore each other’s bodies slowly and methodically will help you understand yourself and your partner and what turns you both on.

Looking to turn up the heat in the bedroom? Give this sexy erogenous zones date a try! | The Dating Divas
This sexy date can help you identify each other’s most pleasurable erogenous zones.


Erogenous zones typically fall into two categories: genital and non-genital. We’ve listed the most common pleasure zones (for both males and females) in each category below.

Non-genital erogenous zones:

  • Scalp
  • Ears
  • Lips
  • Neck
  • Fingertips (including palms of hands)
  • Inner wrist
  • Inner arms (including armpits)
  • Spine (including the small of the back)
  • Nipples (including the areola)
  • Navel (including the lower tummy)
  • Inner thighs
  • The area behind the knees
  • The back of the ankles
  • The underside of the feet (including the toes)

Genital erogenous zones:

  • Pubic mound
  • Clitoris
  • A-spot
  • G-spot
  • Cervix
  • Glans
  • Frenulum
  • Foreskin
  • Testicles (including scrotum)
  • Perineum
  • Prostate

Now that you’re all clued up, let’s jump into the fun stuff: how to use our awesome printables to explore each other’s bodies as you search for pleasure!

Do you know all your spouse's pleasure points? Give this simple date a try and see if there are any that surprise you! | The Dating Divas
Invite your spouse to play this sexy game and spend the night exploring each other’s pleasure zones.

Erogenous Zones Printables

What’s included:

  • An invite
  • A pleasure map
  • Clue cards

What you’ll need:

  • The printables
  • Optional extras to up the spice factor (ice cubes, a feather, a satin cloth, and a vibrator)

How to use:

  • Download the printables by clicking on the button at the end of the post.
  • Print and cut out the invite, clue cards, and map.
  • Leave the invite on your sweetie’s nightstand or pillow, or pop it in their lunch bag for a special surprise!
  • The aim of the game is to take the time to explore and stimulate each other’s erogenous zones and determine what you each like (or don’t) until you FIND the treasure (i.e., the MAIN pleasure zones!).
  • Each clue card offers guidance on how to pay special attention to that specific erogenous zone.
  • Proceed through the map by using each of the corresponding clue cards (the images on the map match the images on each clue card) until you get to “X MARKS THE SPOT!”
  • We’re sure you can take it from there! 😉
Explore each other's erogenous zones together and learn some new foreplay tricks, too! | The Dating Divas
Find where X marks the spot on each of you with the sexy erogenous zones treasure map.

We hope you’ll enjoy this simple yet sexy date and have fun learning more about each other’s pleasure points. Hopefully, you’ll find new tips and tricks to add to your foreplay toolbox, too!

We’ve got loads of other sexy ideas and dates that are so simple and easy to pull off yet can have a resounding effect on your sex life and marriage.

Enjoy your search for treasure!!

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