Sexy Game
Are you ready to REV up your intimate life??? Stick around because today I am going to help you do just that!
How many of you find that you are stuck in a routine? Or do you often find yourself wondering what happened to that spark? Maybe your romance level just isn’t as HOT as it used to be. You find yourself not in the mood more often then you are. You’re too busy with other things to make intimacy a priority. If that spark and excitement has fizzled through the years, I’m telling you right now, that you need to STOP allowing that to be OK and START doing something about it! Such a pattern is destructive to your relationship on all levels, not just intimacy.
In order to keep the flames burning, you need to add kindling to the fire. To do this, you need to get out of your comfort zone, try new ideas, recreate fabulous moments, and keep it spicy! You are not allowed any more excuses after today, because I’m going to help you kick things up a few notches with a sassy little “DIRTY DEEDS” idea that I came up with a few years ago. My hubby and I love it and so will the two of you!
Now that I’ve got you excited enough to make a mad dash to your bedroom, stick around just a little bit longer so we can gather some items first!
COLLECT ITEMS
Darling Dirty Deeds Printables {Let’s all say “Thank You” to Robin for making these glamourous printables!}
White Copy Paper, nothing fancy
Glue Gun
CREATE YOUR GAME
Now that you’ve collected all of your items, let’s put it all together. This is going to be quick and easy! Print the printables onto white copy paper. Cut out each strip. Take one or two blank ones and hand the remainder over to your spouse. Secretly, don’t show your partner, fill out dirty deeds you would like fulfilled onto these strips. That was quick, huh! Now start crumpling up each strip just like you would a piece of paper you are throwing away. Place all your crumpled paper into your trash can. Using your glue gun, attach a ribbon and the tittle tag onto your can.
HOW TO PLAY
Are you ready to say GOOD-BYE to mundane, boring, and sizzled intimacies??? I’m imagining all of you jumping up for joy and saying “YES!” There are 52 slips in this game, which means you’ve got a whole year of fireworks ahead of you!!! Alright, let’s get you playing! At the beginning of each week ONE of you will remove a piece of trash from your can. Don’t let your spouse see the deed, you are going to surprise them. You have one whole week to fulfill this deed. Don’t rush but don’t be too slow either {You don’t want to let the following week creep up before you’ve done the deed!}. Take a few days to prepare, plan, and get everything in order to make this experience romantic and unforgettable. Set up the scene, collect any needed props, take a few breaths of courage, get the deed started, and watch the sparks ignite. Woooooo, hooooo!!! Soon you’ll be trying to “one up” each other – it will be thrilling! The following week it will be the other spouse’s turn.
If you happen to choose a “Pick Your Dirty Deed” slip, this is your lucky week because you get to do whatever you want!
Let’s say you are looking at this post and thinking, “I have no idea how to initiate these deeds or my spouse isn’t romantic,” no worries, we’ve got a few amazing posts that will help get you started – Anticipation Is Half The Fun, Follow Me Sexy Tease, and Setting the Mood. These ideas should get you going, if you still need more take a peek at our Intimate Moments for a bunch of steamy treats.
What are you waiting for!!! You’ve got this!!! Go get your dirty deeds on, already!!!
Love this! Definitely trying this soon!
We’re SO glad you love it!! Thank you for letting us know! Have SOOOO much fun with this idea!! XO
Hey 🙂 my daughter just had a nasty breakup 🙁 have any games -single player-?
Oh no! We’re so sorry to hear that. Sorry, we don’t have a post for single-player games, however, we do have some fun girls night ideas that may help boost her spirits!
Here’s a post with 85 Girls Night Out ideas: https://www.thedatingdivas.com/85-girls-night-ideas/
Here’s a fun party to have a Girls Night In: https://www.thedatingdivas.com/favorite-things-gift-exchange-party/
We hope those ideas help out a bit! 🙂
Love this! I found this a while ago, but thought there was no way my husband would be interested. He saw that I pinned it and said why haven’t we done this yet?? So we started this week! Excited for another fun Diva idea!!
Cayla that is awesome!!! Win, win for both of you. Have fun and enjoy every minute of it! xox
Hey i cant find the printables link? How to get it print …?
Hey Farah! To grab the printables, go up to the section that says collect items. Under that section you will see this, “Darling Dirty Deeds Printables” Click on that link and the pdf will open. Enjoy! xox
can they be done dirt cheap? lol
Ha! Oh yes, they can!!! xox
Hey can you give us some ideas of what we could write in the slips? I love this because I would like to change things up but am not very good at coming up with ideas.
I would love to give you ideas but your intimate tastes might be a little different then mine. Think of things you would like to try. Let your hubby think of things he would like to try. Write them down on your strips. There’s no need to hurry, leave your blank strips out of the trash and when you think of something put it in. You have plenty of ideas that you can try in the meantime. I have a post coming out soon that might help you with more ideas, so keep a look out! xox
Exciting, Exciting!!!!! Thanks again for sharing.
So glad you found it!!!! Have fun playing!!! xox
really awsome
can’t wait to try it
just have to find a cute trash can now
Good luck searching for a cute one. If you find one, share it with us. Enjoy! xox
Love it!! I’ve seen small trashcans at Dollar Tree. I can’t remember if they were cute but I’m sure they can be crafted to look cute! I always love a small craft projects!
Love Dating Divas!!!! This is so creative and awesome, I cannot wait to put together our Dirty Deeds!
Thanks! Hurry on that girl, the two of you will be glad you did! xox
Where to you find the cute little trash can?
I actually found this at Target a couple years ago. I haven’t seen them since. Happy hunting! xox
Awesome!!
Thanks! xox
Love this. My sweetie is out of town alot, so his homecoming is pretty steamy, but this will help add new twist and change things up every now and then. another bonus, it will last us longer than a year.
So much fun, glad we could help you kick the steam level up a notch! Happy homecomings for sure! lol xox
This looks great! I noticed a few of the cards just said “Pick a dirty deed”. Does that mean pick another card or pick anything we want? Just wondering. Thanks 🙂
Hey Jennifer, if you happen to choose a “Pick Your Dirty Deed” slip, this is your lucky week because you get to do whatever you want! If you choose to pick another card, remember you won’t have ideas to last you the whole year. So, I would suggest sticking with the original plan or printing off more blank slips so you can have fun throughout the whole year!!! xox
Love this! Will definitely be getting this set up soon!
Yay, so much fun! You two are going to be in high heaven!!! xox
Adorable Michelle! I love new and exciting ideas to add the spice!!! Can’t wait to try it!
Thanks girlie! If this sparks any NEW ideas please send them my way!!! xox