10+ Ideas for a Sex Box for Adults

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The Adult Sex Box: A Bedroom Surprise for the Ultimate Gamer!

If your man is a “gamer” he will LOVE this sweet and sassy gift idea. If you’ve EVER been turned down because your spouse is “SO close to beating the latest level” or if “just 5 more minutes” turns into hours, then this Sex Box is the ULTIMATE gift for your gamer of a spouse! The Sex Box is a box of bedroom goodies equipped for a night of “gaming” with your spouse. Complete with FREE printables to put your sex box together on your own!

A sexy gift for your sexy gamer!
A box of bedroom goodies called the Sex Box. #TheDatingDivas #SexBox
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If you really want to grab your spouse’s attention, you have to play a page out of their book!  If gaming is their thing, then there is NO way they can turn you down when you surprise them with our Sex Box.
{PSSST…. if you are giving your man an Xbox console, game, or accessory for Christmas or their birthday- THIS would be the PERFECT thing to throw in along with it to make it EXTRA special. Just saying.}

How The Sex Box Works

Invite them to an evening where turning YOU ON is the game of the night!
Start by printing out the Sex Box printables, created by the FANTASTIC Courtney at Paperelli! She’s unbelievable and you just HAVE to check her out!
Cut out all the pieces of the controller invite and use dual-adhesive foam stickers to adhere them to the invite to give it a 3D effect that will REALLY grab the attention of your significant other!

Turn on your spouse with a SeXBOX!
The invite will entice your spouse to “pause their game and turn you on instead.”
A sexy bedroom invite!
Fill up a box FULL of bedroom goodies that will keep you and your spouse busy all night long or for multiple nights! Check out our very favorite spicy ideas and products  here to liven things up in the bedroom!
Accessories perfect for the SeXBOX.
Use the fun controller tags as added decor to your goodies when placing them in the box. You can even write sassy, bedroom activities or flirty love notes on the back of each controller before attaching them any of the bedroom accessories.
Controller Tags for the SeXBOX
Once you’ve tagged all of your bedroom items, organize them in a box of your choice!
A box full of bedroom goodies that will have them playing with you instead of their video games!
Place this flirtatious note on top and gear up for a night of “gaming” with your spouse!
Take your sex to the next level with this SeXBOX!
And let the games begin. WINK!
If this is a hit, there’s no doubt these intimacy ideas will be as well:
The Man Can
Deal or No Deal
“Talk Nerdy to Me” Love Notes
Oh, and if you’re looking for any more sexy gift ideas for him- make sure to check out our new SPICY GIFT GUIDE!

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SeXBOX Printables

Printables Designed by Courtney @ Paperelli Exclusively for The Dating Divas



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    1. If you scroll to the bottom of the post and click on the white words on the pink background that say- “Click to Download Our”, it should open in a new tab. If that doesn’t work, email us at divas@thedatingdivas.com and we can help you!

    1. Hello Shaquella! Yes, the printables are still available. At the bottom of the post click on the pink box that says, “CLICK TO DOWNLOAD OUR” and that will open up a new window with the printables! You can then save them and print them! If you have any questions about the printables, feel free to reach out to our incredible customer service team: divas@thedatingdivas.com. I hope you enjoy creating the box! 🙂 Enjoy!

  1. This is absolutely hilarious my fiance is going to love this its our 11 years tomorrow so definitely going to be doing this

  2. Hello. I will like to know how i can buy the sexbox for him. I can not seem to find where to add it to “My Cart”.

    1. Thanks for reaching out to us! The printables to create your own Sex Box are right in the post – at the bottom of the post will be a pink button that says “Click to Download our Sexbox Printables”. Once you click you will be able to download and print the printables, then you can attach them to a box to create your own Sex Box!! If you have any additional questions, we are happy to help! Email us at divas@thedatingdivas.com XO

  3. This is such a great idea. My hubby is a total gamer but I have a feeling he will put his controller down for this. Such an awesome idea. Thanks

  4. I’m making a year of dates gift for the hubby for Christmas and I’m putting this in it! I cannot wait!! He’s a truck driver so on the very few days he is home for the month he likes to sit back and game & we never really have time or ideas of what to do so that’s just what he does. But I know this will get him away from the Xbox!! HAHA!! Thanks for the amazing ideas!

    1. Jessica, we are SO glad you like this one! Hope your hubby does too! It’s definitely been a hit with our hubbies! XO

    1. We don’t but that is a GREAT idea Stephanie! Sounds like we need to do a new post! Thanks for the inspiration. 😉 XO

    1. I’m so glad you like it! In the box, I put a his/her pair of superhero underwear (for some themed fun), a bedroom game, a candle where you can also use the melted wax for a oily body massage, a heating pad for extra sensory fun, a feather teaser and a book of fun positions…just in case we wanted to try something new! You really could just about ANYTHING you and your spouse like to use or want to try in the bedroom!