Favorites Questionnaire for Couples

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Favorite Things Questions for Couples

Have you ever been asked a question about your spouse that is so simple and yet you cannot think of the answer? What is his favorite treat, dinner, candy? Our favorites questionnaire is the perfect way to find out what your spouse is loving right NOW! Favorite things change over time, so even if you once knew all of your spouse’s favorites, it is very likely that many of their answers are no longer the same. This fact got us thinking… When your relationship is new you soak up every ounce information your spouse gives. As the years have passed that information you once soaked in has likely become dated.

We have the perfect idea to get you all caught up! A Few of My Favorite Things condensed cards, as well as a lengthened version, will get you up to date and no longer second-guessing. On top of that, to take you back to the days of asking anything and soaking up all of their answers, we created pages of Ask Me Anything questions!

Favorite Things Couples Questionnaire to Reconnect

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Favorite Things Questionnaire

The bright, beautiful colors of these printables make them all the more fun to fill out with your sweetie. Carisa, from Messes to Memories is who we have to thank for that! They are not only super helpful in finding out your spouse’s favorite things, they are also completely adorable!

Couples Favorite Things Questionnaire

To dive in, first print the condensed version Favorite Things cards. There is a card for him and a card for her! These condensed cards are the perfect way to collect that basic information that is handy for surprising your spouse with a little something special. Knowing his current favorite candy, drink, breakfast, etc., can be super helpful when planning a little surprise for your spouse after a long week—or just because! The best part is, since these are condensed versions, they can slide into your purse, or fold up in your wallet for easy access when you are on the go, but decide to show your spouse some extra love and attention.

Condensed Version of My Favorite Things Questionnaire

Condensed Version of Favorite Things Questionnaire

List of Favorites Questionnaire

Now that you completed your condensed questionnaires, it’s time for the more in-depth version. Either print two copies or fill out one together, each using a different colored pen. Let your spouse know, These are a Few of My Favorite Things, by going category by category thinking about and filling in each of your favorites. Whether for gift giving, relaxing, or just good-to-know general knowledge, this sheet will be a great way to get to know your spouse again. Hang it on your fridge or keep it in a safe spot to refer back to!

These are a few of my favorite things!

Now that you’ve gone through the basics, dive a little deeper, asking your spouse anything. We have created two sheets full of prompts to get you thinking. Use this activity to open up to each other, and reconnect. You may be surprised how many of your spouse’s answers you never would have guessed on your own!

Ask Me Anything, Conversation Prompts

 We have everything you need for a full evening of feeling closer and more connected to your spouse. Soak in each other and enjoy these moments of getting reacquainted with your spouse, their thoughts, their answers, and their favorite things!


We’ve received such great feedback from you all about wanting even MORE conversation starters for your marriage. Ones that really focus on the DEEP and IMPORTANT issues in marriage. So… we designed a whole NEW pack of Conversation Cards! These cards were designed to tackle the tough topics and really open up meaningful conversations.  
Our NEW Conversation Starters Kit includes printables for creating your own unique carrying case for your cards, plus the 250 question prompts in the following 5 categories:
1. Intimacy, 2. Finances, 3. Quality Time, 4. Romance, and 5. Family
Conversation Cards

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Favorite Things Questionnaire for Couples

Printables Designed by Carisa @ Messes to Memories Exclusively for The Dating Divas


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  1. Very nice! Loved doing the questionnaire. My wife is Japanese and needs to improve her English so I’ll be doing it with her too tonight!

    1. The “Love Quest” questionnaire was actually retired and this is our new, updated “Favorite Things” questionnaire!

    1. Hello Betsy! I think you may be referring to the 7 Days of Love program? If so, then every day you should be sent a new email with the information for that day! If you can’t find the emails, please reach out to our amazing Customer Service team by emailing divas@thedatingdivas.com! We’d love to help get your questions answered over there! Have an amazing day!! We’re so glad you’re here!! XO

  2. I am starting the 7 Days of Love” challenge and when I open up the overview it mentions that a “love quest” quiz must be filled but once I press the link it leads me to this page and I can’t seem to find it. Does anyone know exactly where to find it?

    1. Hello!! Thanks for reaching out! Sorry for the confusion… The “Love Style Quiz” is an attachment to your Day One email. The “Love Quest” questionnaire was actually retired which is why we linked our new “Favorite Things” questionnaire. You can download this printable at the bottom of this post. Look for the pink “CLICK TO DOWNLOAD OUR” button. Once you download it, you can print the first 2 pages and have your sweetheart fill those out! 🙂 Be sure to hang on to them because it will be a helpful reference later in the 7 Days of Love! 🙂 If you have any additional questions, please email us and we will respond quickly – divas@thedatingdivas.com. Enjoy your 7 Days of Love!! XO

  3. I can’t read the questions with the green & white bars. The white words get cut off by the write stripes. Can you let me know what all of those questions are supposed to be?

    1. Hi Ben, so sorry you’re having trouble viewing the questions. Those questions are as follows:
      If you were gifted $10,000, how would you spend it?
      What embarrasses you the most?
      If we only had one more day together how would you choose to spend it?
      What is one thing you want but would never buy for yourself?
      If you choose one famous person to be your best friend, who would it be?
      When did you last cry? Why?
      What challenged you recently?
      What is the most meaningful memory you have about our marriage?

  4. Where is the favorite things questionaire? And where is the sexy things questionnaire? I click and click on everything and I scroll down forever and there’s never a printable link.

    1. Hi Jodi! So sorry you’re having trouble grabbing these printables! If you scroll to the bottom of the post, just after the last picture, you will see a pink box that says “Click to Download Our”, then below it gives the title of the post. I just tried it and it worked for me, but if you continue to have trouble, definitely let up know and we will figure it out with you!

  5. I loveeeee so much this website. I did not have any idea to do in my Valentine’s Day and I found this website and It was the solution. There are great ideas for couples and I am excited to explore more this website and share with my friends and family. Thanks so much for this website !!!

    1. Raquell, that makes me so happy to hear!! Thank you for the sweet comment, I’m excited you found some great ideas for Valentine’s Day!!

  6. I just so happened upon this site and I love it. My guy friend and I are starting over so to speak and trying to get to know each other better so the tools that I am finding will work great. I hate to see couples sitting on their phones when out this is a great tool for home and on dates.

    1. I couldn’t agree more. It’s so important to give our partners ore time than our electronics! I’m so glad this was helpful to you in your relationship!

  7. the other night i was looking for something to do, so we went geocaching and it ended at a beach, i printed this of and after the geocaching search we sat down and filled this out, so much fun, i packed drinks and a snack = free. i also made the 10 dates for $20 and gave that to him. thanks for the great ideas:)

  8. This is a keeper! Our anniversary is this week and we are soo doing this! Love the idea of asking more than general questions…Maybe you can give me a few ideas by telling me some (or all! lol) of your longer version questions??? I’m seriously putting this together asap!!! xox <3

  9. I am having trouble accessing the favorite things questionnaire and the love quest survey. I can print the favorite things. Can you help me with the link?

    1. If you click on the link to the questionnaire or love quest survey, it will take you to another page where you’ll see the words “Favorite-Things-Questionnaire”. Just click on those words and a window will pop up that asks if you would like to open or save the file. Hope that helps! If you are still having trouble, just let us know. 🙂

  10. This is great, but I had trouble accessing the favorite things questionnaire. Can you help me with the link?

    1. Hi Monick! If you click on the link to the questionnaire, it will take you to another page where you’ll see the words “Favorite-Things-Questionnaire”. Just click on those words and a window will pop up that asks if you would like to open or save the file. Hope that helps! If you are still having trouble, just let us know. 🙂

  11. Thank you for posting this idea. My husband and I will be doing this every year on our anniversary! It is a GREAT idea!

  12. I really really love this idea! I can’t wait to make a date night out of this! I love this idea of making a family version too and going through it with the kids every year. Thank you for sharing