Sexy Date Night: Connecting Through Tantric Sex

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A Tantric Sex Experience for Couples

We’re sure you’ve heard of tantric sex, but have you ever researched where and how it originated? Well, we did, and we LOVED what we found!

Are you ready to establish a deeper, intimate connection with your spouse? If so, this tantric sex experience is for YOU!

These prompts are perfect for a night of tantric sex! | The Dating Divas
Printable tantric sex prompts
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What is Tantric Sex?

First things first: what is tantric sex?

According to the article Everything You Need to Know About Tantric Sex by Medical News Today, the tantric sex definition is, “Tantric sex is a slow, meditative form of sex where the end goal is not orgasm but enjoying the sexual journey and sensations of the body. It aims to move sexual energy throughout the body for healing, transformation, and enlightenment.”

What makes tantric sex different from other forms of sex? Sex is optional, and orgasm is not the goal. You read that right!

In fact, an article by Insider titled How to Practice Tantric Sex, a Meditative Form of Intimacy That Can Improve Relationships states that in tantric sexology, “the goal is not about reaching orgasm quickly (if at all) or about feeling incredible physical pleasure. Instead, tantric sex focuses on creating a genuine mindful connection within yourself and then between you and your partner.”

To sum up: tantric sexology is all about getting to know your body and your partner’s body and forming a deep, intimate connection with one another. Pretty cool, huh?

Tantric sexology goes back hundreds of years. Are you ready for the experience? | The Dating Divas
A couple exploring tantric sexology

How to Get Ready for Tantric Sex

Now that we’ve discussed the tantric sex definition, let’s talk about how to get ready for your tantric sex experience. (Spoiler alert: you’re going to LOVE this!)

In that same article from Medical News Today, the author recommends:

  • Read further into it: The more knowledge someone has on the topic of tantric sex, the more they are likely to feel prepared.
  • Set aside time: Tantric sex is about moving slowly and being in the moment. In some cases, it can last an hour or more. Therefore, be sure to set aside some time to fully engage and enjoy the experience.
  • Prepare the mind: Focusing on the moment can be difficult if a person is experiencing stress or has many things on their mind. Meditating or stretching before tantric sex may help achieve a clear mindset.
  • Find a good place: The environment plays a key role in tantric sex. Ideally, it will take place in a relaxing setting with a comfortable temperature. A person may want to dim the lights, light a scented candle, or put on relaxing music.

It’s also important to note that tantric sex aims to use (or discover) all five of your senses.

Tantric sex is a great way for couples to build a deeper, more intimate connection. | The Dating Divas
A couple participating in tantric sex

Tantric Sex Tools for your 5 Senses

It’s true that all you need for love-making is two consenting adults, but when it comes to tantric sex, you both can enjoy a heightened experience with the use of a few of these extras!

Feel free to browse this helpful list or use what you have at home to tap into your 5 senses during tantric sex!

Touch

Sight

Sound

Smell

Taste

Couples can use rose petals for a heightened visual experience during tantric sex | The Dating Divas
Rose petals used for a heightened tantric sex experience

Tantric Sex Date Night with Printables

We have an awesome printable pack for you and your sweetie to use and enjoy for your night of tantric sexology.

Included in your free download is an invitation to present to your spouse:

This printable invitation is perfect for a night of tantric sex with your spouse! | The Dating Divas
Tantric sex invitation

As well as 15 steamy, intimate tantric sex prompt cards that you can perform together:

You and your spouse are going to LOVE these tantric sex prompt cards! | The Dating Divas
Tantric sex prompt cards

Simply print and cut the printables, and then set aside an evening for you and your spouse. That’s it! After that, you’re ready to go!

So, who’s ready to give this a try?! Enjoy your night of connecting through tantric love! {Wink!}

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