Pillow Talk Conversation Starters

Pillow Talk With Your Spouse 

After a long day of work, kids, and the stresses of life, it is nice to wind down and find some time to reconnect with your spouse! Right before bed is the perfect time for this! Taking just a few minutes each night when the lights go out to chat with your spouse can really help to strengthen a marriage! Today we share with you our collection of over 50 different questions to ask your spouse in bed to get the pillow talk started! 

Pillow Talk Questions

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Pillow Talk Marriage Sleepover Quote
I love this quote! Remember the teenage days of sleepovers when you would stay up late into the night chatting with your best friend in the dark? There is something so bonding about laying in the dark with your best friend sharing your dreams, worries and hopes! Every night of the week you get to have a sleepover with your eternal best friend – your spouse and do the same! Pillow talk is the perfect way to connect with your spouse at the end of each night and we with our printable question cards – have made it easy!
Pillow Talk Free Printables
With over 50 printable pillow talk question cards – you will never run out of conversations with your spouse! And check out these colorful designs by our designer Kayley at the Etsy shop Ollie and Lulu they’re are not only functional but also incredibly adorable! I love the bold colors she uses in all of her designs! 
Pillow Talk Types Of Questions
These pillow talk conversation starters come in three categories: 
DAILY Pillow Talk Questions 
SILLY Pillow Talk Questions 
Pillow Talk Questions about the FUTURE
Pillow Talk Question Card
You can use our printable pillow talk questions in whatever way works best for you and your marriage. Maybe you do a different question each night or maybe you make a whole date night out of it by asking several questions (these cards would be a great addition to our Spouse Sleepover Date Night Idea!). How you decide to use these question cards is up to you! 
Pillow Talk Daily Question Card
You could even do these questions with your kids before bedtime too! These would love it! 
Pillow Talk Hole Punch
To keep all of my printable pillow talk questions organized I used a 1/8 inch hole punch to make a hole  on the left side of the card. 
Pillow Talk Questions To Ask Your Spouse
Then, I added all 50 of the cards (keeping them in their categories) to an index card/book ring and snapped it together! 
Pillow Talk Printable Question Cards
Now I can keep all 50 pillow talk cards conveniently on my bed stand – ready to use at any time!
Pillow Talk Question Card Example
Just grab the stack and get the conversation started! It is that easy! 


We’ve received such great feedback from you all about wanting even MORE conversation starters for your marriage. Ones that really focus on the DEEP and IMPORTANT issues in marriage. So… we designed a whole NEW pack of Conversation Cards! These cards were designed to tackle the tough topics and really open up meaningful conversations.  
Our NEW Conversation Starters Kit includes printables for creating your own unique carrying case for your cards, plus the 250 question prompts in the following 5 categories:
1. Intimacy, 2. Finances, 3. Quality Time, 4. Romance, and 5. Family
Conversation Cards

CLICK HERE to check out all the deets and purchase our NEW pack. 

Then make sure and come back to download your FREE pillow talk conversation starters.  We also have pillow talk for kids! And don’t forget to give some Diva love to Kayley at her shop Ollie and Lulu before clicking the link below to get your free printables: 

About the Author: Sarina

I met my Prince Charming when I was 15 years old and 12 years later we created our own happily ever after. Together we enjoy traveling the world, and, of course, going on creative dates! I am a former theatre teacher who now stays at home with a handsome baby boy. I love dancing, photography & chocolate!

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20 Responses to Pillow Talk Conversation Starters

  1. I love this list. My husband is currently deployed and struggle to come with things to talk about. This list gives us 20 days of conversation starters. Thank you!!

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  3. This sounds more like questions you ask someone on a first date.
    If you’ve been married for your years id think you’d know their favourite song etc…

    1. Kayla – you’d think, right? 😉 People change all the time. New songs come out, they grow tired of their favorite color, they find a NEW favorite treat.. life is an adventure and we are all changing as we grow, learn more, and find more things we like even better then our previous favorites. 😉

  4. Thanks for the printables. We are using them as dinner conversation starters and are enjoying getting to know little things about one another that we never knew before.