Pillow Talk With Your Spouse

Pillow Talk Conversation Starters

After a long day of work, kids, and the stresses of life,  wind down and find some time to reconnect with your spouse with pillow talk! Right before bed is the perfect time for getting cozy and open up about your thoughts. Taking just a few minutes each night when the lights go out to pillow talk with your spouse can really help to strengthen a marriage! Today we share with you our collection of different questions for couples to get the pillow talk started! Basically, we are changing up your bedtime routine, 1 question at a time.

After a day of work and kids I just need some one-on-one with my man! These pillow talk ideas from www.TheDatingDivas.com are fantastic! Can't wait for the silly ones to come up! #PillowTalk #ConversationStarters

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Remember the teenage days of sleepovers when you would stay up late into the night bringing up deep conversation topics with your best friend in the dark? There is something so bonding about laying in the dark with your bestie sharing your dreams, worries, and hopes!

End the day with a laugh with Pillow Talk!

When you are married, every night of the week you get to have a sleepover with your eternal best friend! Pillow talk is the perfect way to connect with your spouse at the end of each night and with our printable conversation topics – we have made it easy!

And how adorable are they? Courtney at Paperelli totally knocked it out of the park with these sweet colors and graphics!

3 categories of pillow talk for your marriage.

With over 50 printable pillow talk question cards – you will never run out of conversation topics with your spouse! They’re not only functional but also incredibly adorable!

Enjoy a night of pillow talk with your sweetie.
These pillow talk conversation starters come in three categories: 

  • DAILY Pillow Talk Questions

  • SILLY Pillow Talk Questions

  • Pillow Talk Questions about the FUTURE

Reconnect with these pillow talk conversation starters.

How to Use Your Pillow Talk Conversation Starters

You can use our printable questions for couples in whatever way works best for you and your marriage. Maybe you do a different question each night or maybe you make a whole date night out of it by asking several questions (these cards would be a great addition to our Spouse Sleepover Date Night Idea!). How you decide to use these question cards is up to you!

Silly pillow talk questions.
You could even do these questions with your kids before bedtime too! (You can check out our pillow talk for kids!) They will love it. Anytime spent in meaningful conversation with those you love is priceless.

Preparing Your Questions for Couples

These conversation topic cards are so easy to prep! I had mine printed at a local shop, but if you have a color printer at home – go for it. Then I just took my paper cutter and sliced them up. Straight cuts are my best friend.

Daily pillowtalk questions

To keep all of my printable pillow talk questions organized I used a 1/8 inch hole punch to make a hole on the left side of the card.

Pillow Talk questions about the future.

Then, after punching them, I added all 50 of the cards (keep them in their categories, or feel free to mix the deep conversation starters with the silly questions for couples!) to an index card/book ring and snapped it together!
Pillow Talk with your spouse at night.

Now I can keep all 50 pillow talk cards conveniently on my bed stand – ready to use at any time! Got to bed a few minutes early? Then just grab the stack and get the conversation started! It is that easy! As a matter of fact, I’m going to do that tonight.

Review the day with pillowtalk conversation starters.
 

Pillow Talk Questions Update

After these Pillow Talk prints, we received such great feedback from you all about wanting even MORE conversation starters for your marriage. Not only do you want fun ones, but ones that really focus on the DEEP conversation topics that come up in marriage. So… we designed a whole NEW pack of Conversation Cards! These cards were designed to tackle the tough topics and really open up meaningful conversations.

Our NEW Conversation Starters Kit includes printables for creating your own unique carrying case for your cards, plus the 250 question prompts in the following 5 categories:

1. Intimacy, 2. Finances, 3. Quality Time, 4. Romance, and 5. Family

Conversation Cards

CLICK HERE to check out all the deets and purchase our NEW pack.

Then make sure and come back to download your FREE pillow talk conversation starters!

About the Author: Sarina

I met my Prince Charming when I was 15 years old and 12 years later we created our own happily ever after. Together we enjoy traveling the world, and, of course, going on creative dates! I am a former theatre teacher who now stays at home with a handsome baby boy. I love dancing, photography & chocolate!

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18 Responses to Pillow Talk With Your Spouse

  1. Thanks for the printables. We are using them as dinner conversation starters and are enjoying getting to know little things about one another that we never knew before.

  2. This sounds more like questions you ask someone on a first date.
    If you’ve been married for your years id think you’d know their favourite song etc…

    1. Kayla – you’d think, right? 😉 People change all the time. New songs come out, they grow tired of their favorite color, they find a NEW favorite treat.. life is an adventure and we are all changing as we grow, learn more, and find more things we like even better then our previous favorites. 😉

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  4. I love this list. My husband is currently deployed and struggle to come with things to talk about. This list gives us 20 days of conversation starters. Thank you!!