150 Adorable Ideas for a “Reasons Why I Love You” List

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Gifting a “Reasons Why I Love You” list to your spouse is the perfect gift for any time of year! But sometimes it can be hard to come up with all those reasons. We’ve got the perfect list of inspiration just for you! We asked several Divas to come up with their “Reasons Why” they love their spouse and here’s what they shared! Check them out below and use any that work for your relationship.

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Over 100 “Reasons Why I Love You”

Diva Julie’s Reasons ❤️

1. You picked me!

2. Together we are raising our children in a very happy home.

3. You love to share your thoughts on books that you are reading with me.

4. You teach our children fun and crazy things.

5. You care about how I feel.

6. We spend lots of time talking about decisions we need to make together.

7. You tell me I am beautiful!

8. You take out the garbage so I don’t have to.

9. You are my best friend.

10. You encourage me by always eating my cooking and telling me it is good!

Diva Emily’s Reasons ❤️

11. Your eyes smile when you laugh.

12. You kiss me goodbye when I’m still asleep in the morning.

13. You bust into song around the house and you have the most beautiful voice.

14. You watch my girly shows with me.

15. You let me talk out loud in movies to you.

16. You always open the car door for me.

17. You eat everything I cook with zero complaints!

18. You’re always saving funny memes on your phone to show me later because you want me to laugh too.

19. You tell me I’m the most beautiful woman in the world.

20. Your face on our wedding day was the purest and happiest face ever.

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Cute couple embracing the reasons why they’re in love

Diva Jennifer’s Reasons ❤️

21. When I say “Let’s run errands—you go here, I’ll go there,” you say, “Nope, let’s just go together.”

22.  You made chocolate chip pancakes for everyone on Sunday… again!

23.  You unflinchingly help me untangle the last 10% of every project I undertake.

24. You told me I looked pretty yesterday!

25.  You made a musical instrument with our daughter, of which she is SO proud!

26. You never give up on me, even when I’m at my worst.

27. You turn on the seat warmer in the car for me.

28. You always swap the wet towels for dry ones when you know I’m showering after you.

29. When things don’t go as planned, you roll with it instead of getting stressed.

30. I miss you even when you’re in the next room.

31. When I fell running, you were kind to my knees.

32. I love you every time you reach across our giant bed to pull me close.

33. You’d rather come to bed with me than watch a tv show.

34. When I finish yet another road race, I’m always greeted by your text, “Did you win?”

35. Without you, the tv, thermostat, and Wi-Fi would never actually function.

36. You have done an amazing job with every one of our kids—on their own terms.

37. You are my intellectual equal, and you meet every challenge I present with wisdom and insight that astounds me.

38. Your dreams are my dreams.

39. You stop and treat me to Starbucks!

40. Even at 51, you are the sexiest man I’ve ever, ever seen!

Diva Kari’s Reasons ❤️

41. You know me better than I know myself.

42. You are always willing to help me accomplish my goals.

43. You put my needs before your own.

44. You have an inner strength that helps keep me calm when my life is in chaos.

45. You have the ability to comfort me simply by your touch.

46. I love how are able to make me laugh even when the situation shouldn’t be funny.

47. I love how you put so much thought into everything you do for me.

48. You have an innate ability to protect and take care of me.

49. You are always pushing me to be better, and you are my biggest fan in all that I do.

50. You make all of my dreams come true, no matter how small they are.

Diva Tara’s Reasons ❤️

51. You inspire me.

52. You are my best friend!

53. You are my other half.

54. You believe in me.

55. You make the dark a little less scary.

56. You love me even when it’s “that time” of the month!

57. I love that your hand fits perfectly with mine.

58. You make me feel so safe.

59. You don’t just tell me you love me, you show me.

60. You know how to cheer me up when I’m sad.

61. You’re always there when I need a shoulder to cry on.

62. I love that you can make me laugh… REALLY hard!

63. I love that you ask about my day.

64. Your kisses make me weak in the knees.

65. You are everything I never knew I needed.

66. If all I had was you, it would be enough.

67. I love that you let me cuddle up REALLY close to you… even when you are dying of heat.

68. I love that you make my fears melt away.

69. I love that you love me back.

70. I love that you take care of me when I forget to.

Diva Paige’s Reasons ❤️

71. You wake up with the kids so I can sleep in every weekend.

72. You know when to help and when to let me do it myself.

73. You work hard so that I can stay home and enjoy raising our children!

74. You’re the calm to my crazy!

75. You go shopping with me and are super patient as I take my time and try things on.

76. You compliment me (and mean it)!

77. You do the dishes (yuck!).

78. Your patience is unreal!

79. You always keep a promise.

80. You may not always agree with my decisions, but you always trust me to make them.

81. You’re a realist.

82. You love me for the good and the bad.

83. You’ll do anything to make me happy.

84. You’ll give me a massage anytime I ask (and I ask a lot).

85. You make the best homemade milkshakes!

86. You allow (and engage when you can) in my Starbucks addiction!

87. You are the only person I can eat sushi with!

88. You love unconditionally.

89. You love being a father (and you’re pretty good at it {wink wink})!

90. You have passion in all that you do!

100. I love that you are the person I get to spend the rest of my life with, because with you I know that no day will be the same (or easy) but it will always be filled with love and effort.

101.  You keep the thermostat set warmer than usual because you know I’m cold year-round!

Diva Chrissy’s Reasons ❤️

102. You take SUCH great care of the kids.

103. You rub my feet on Friday nights.

104. You support all of my personal interests & hobbies.

105. You give me heartfelt compliments when you think I look pretty.

106. You encourage me after I feel like I’ve failed.

107. You eat whatever I make—even when it’s a complete disaster!

108. You love my family even though they’re crazy!

109. You take care of your health.

110. You teach our kids how to be respectful.

111. You make delicious desserts!

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Romantic couple in love sharing “reasons why I love you” with each other

Diva Hilary’s Reasons ❤️

112.  You always give me the benefit of the doubt.

113.  We have a blast just being together.

114.  You get in the kitchen and cook with me, and lots of times without me.

115.  You are an awesome daddy!!

116.  You are a hard worker.

117.  You always support me.

118.  You know how to do anything electronic.

119.  You are smokin’ hot!

120.  I love your snuggles.

121.  You always open my car door.

Diva Stacy’s Reasons ❤️

122. You carry the heaviest groceries in yourself.

123. You know how to put me first.

124. You’re a big softie when it comes to kids.

125. You treat my family like your own.

126. You have given me spectacular memories.

127. Your hugs can always make me feel better.

128. You give sincere compliments.

129. You treat me like a lady even when I look like a hobo.

130. You’re not afraid to be silly with me.

131. You have the courage to chase your dreams!

Diva Becca’s Reasons ❤️

132.  You can always make me laugh even when I want to cry.

133.  You still give me butterflies.

134.  You freely share everything you have with me.

135.  You know the secret little things that cheer me up and make me happy.

136.  You only seem to notice my strengths and always have confidence in me.

137.  You always have an idea of something fun to do.

138.  You make me feel completely cherished and adored.

139.  You make me feel like I can get through anything as long as I have you.

140.  You sacrifice and work so hard without even realizing that you’re doing it.

141.  You take care of me and spoil me when I’m sick.

142.  You always make time for just the two of us.

143.  You look at me like I’m the most beautiful person in the world.

144.  You can fix ANYTHING that breaks!

145.  You always ask my opinion.

146.  You still kiss my forehead, open doors for me, and kiss me at red lights.

147.  You check on the girls and give them kisses every night before going to bed.

148.  You always smell good!

149.  You always help with the cooking, cleaning, and diaper changing.

150.  You make the ordinary extraordinary!

Diva Ferren’s Reasons ❤️

151. You always help me see the silver linings when my sky is full of gray clouds.

152. You laugh at my jokes even if they aren’t that funny.

153. You support me in all my crazy endeavors such as work, school, and running!

154. You work so hard so that I can be a stay-at-home mom and go to school!

155. You say I look beautiful even when I don’t think I do.

156. You always ask for my opinion before making big decisions.

157. You help out with diapers and a crying baby at night.

158. You make me smile and laugh even when I’m down.

159. You are still just as chivalrous as when we were dating.

160. I love that our love grows every day!

Diva Wendy’s Reasons ❤️

161. Your charming ways! It doesn’t matter if we are laughing or arguing, it comes out and makes us both smile.

162. Your unconditional patience with everything!

163. You can cook! YEP—you might be better than I am!

164. Your testimony of the gospel and dedication to family and work that allows our family to be successful and for me to stay home with my kids!

165. Your complimenting me 24/7—on my best and worst days.

166. You are undeniably in LOVE with me and prove it in every way!

167. You are most definitely handsome/hot in every way!

168. You are the best dad any kid could ask for! Getting down in the rubble to be a kid again.

169. You are incredibly hot while doing the dishes!

170. Because you waited for me (in a sense) until I finally decided it was time to say “I do.”

Diva Candice’s Reasons ❤️

171.  You can fix anything!

172.  You never complain or roll your eyes when I ask you to get rid of a spider.

173.  I know that I can come to you with a request to fix or build something for an upcoming party and you will always find a creative solution.

174.  You are an incredible father and provider for our family.

175.  You always offer to bring me soup if I’m not feeling well.

176.  You are a gentleman!

177.  You are always up for a travel adventure—I love creating memories with you!

178.  You believe in my creative talents and support my hobbies.

179.  You give amazing hugs.

180.  You make me pancakes even though you can’t stand them and would prefer waffles.

181.  You genuinely want to hear my opinion and value my perspective.


Wouldn’t receiving a “Things I Love About You” list make your heart melt?! A physical list like this can hold amazing memories, so we created everything you need to create such a cherished list in the form of a book!

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Man holding his “Reasons Why I Love You” book with lots of reasons why she loves him

How to Make a “Reasons Why I Love You” Book

Simply click the big pink download button below! You’ll see multiple pages, including a front and back cover page, plus the inside pages for your reasons numbered up to 100! When you finish this “100 Reasons Why I Love You” book, your sweetheart will be so touched! Here are a few tips for getting your DIY book printed out!

TIP #1: When you print your book out, make sure you do the whole thing since you want to have all 100 numbers in it.

TIP #2. This simple booklet does require front and back printing. Each printer can be a little different with this, so we suggest printing a practice page (in black and white to save ink!) just in case your printer flips the “back” image.

TIP #3. Let the brainstorming begin!! I’d suggest jotting notes down on a separate piece of paper while you get your thoughts together. The first thing I did was write down “Things I love about you,” and it all just started flowing from there!

TIP #4. If you start at the beginning of your relationship, then you can move your way through the years! This will make your book chronological in addition to making it easier to think of the overall reasons.

And… voila! I hope you enjoy creating this book for the love of your life and that you find new ways to show your love for each other every single day! ❤️

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I am a passionate, fun, and caring gal married to the most incredible man in the world! Where I am the happiest is in nature with my handsome husband, my sweet baby girl Isla Joe, and my fun doggos Woods and Pancake! I enjoy reliving my glory days by playing volleyball with my girl friends or relaxing at the golf course! I am convinced I could not live without popcorn, caramel apples, and my guilty pleasure, vanilla coke! You can find me outdoors, partying with family, or on that dance floor baby!

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  1. I guess I’m being particularly dense today. I downloaded the 100 reasons book structure. the Number pages…how do we edit in our reasons there? It doesn’t look like there is a spot to edit into. Am I just not getting it? (be kind, running on 3 hours sleep)

    1. Hello Connie! It’s not an editable PDF, so you would print it (front to back like the instructions) and then handwrite your reason below each number! 🙂

  2. Omgosh I always need these ideas when I am writing something for my sweetie as I am SO bad and putting them into words! Thanks a million

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