At Home Date Night Ideas

At Home Dates for Couples

Kids. Ah, the joys of parenthood. They require time, energy, love, and attention. It can be so easy to get swept up in the care and needs of the children that you forget the care and needs of your spouse!

Finding time for date night with your spouse when kids are in the picture can be TOUGH but it IS possible and it IS IMPORTANT! Even if you can’t go out, there are so many options for date night!

We’ve put together this post with tons of at home date night ideas to help you get started! It might be a little awkward at first, once you get started though, you’ll love connecting in these fun and meaningful ways.

Date night ideas at home for after the kids are in bed! #AtHomeDateIdeas #DatingDivas #EasyDateIdeas

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Today we share with you tons of date night ideas that you can do from home after the kids are in bed. So put those kiddos to bed a little early tonight and have some all-important time alone with your spouse!

Once those kids are tucked nicely in bed, it is time for the fun to begin! Check out these fun, unique and romantic ideas for an at home date night with your spouse. There is something for everyone with these 7 different kinds of stay at home date nights:

  1. Unique Date Night Ideas at Home
  2. Movie Date Night In
  3. Romantic Night Ideas
  4. Game Night At Home Date Ideas
  5. At Home Date Ideas with Food
  6. Active At Home Date Ideas
  7. Sexy and Romantic Ideas for Couples

Sometimes planning for date night when you feel limited can be tough! We often think of date night as a time to go out, but you can have fun and meaningful date nights at home.

It doesn’t always have to be dinner and a movie… you can connect and make memories at home with any of these fun date ideas. Just keep in mind that these are all ideas to get you started, use your creativity to change up any of these ideas to fit for you and your spouse!

As you browse, take note of at home date ideas that your sweetheart will be excited about trying out.

Unique Date Night Ideas at Home

The kids are sound asleep and it is time to reconnect with your spouse after a long day! Here are some one-of-a-kind date night ideas that you can do from home while the kids are sleeping! These date nights are fun and unique, but most of all easy to do!

Unique Date Night Ideas At-Home


  • Couples Conversation StartersTaking time to talk with your spouse is the perfect way to reconnect. With these conversation prompt questions, you will have plenty to talk about! Pair these with any at home date idea and make date night a little more meaningful!
  • Getting to Know You Matching Game – See how well you really know your spouse with a competitive game for two. You might just learn something new!
  • “Read My Mind” Easy Date Idea – Can you guess what your spouse is thinking? Get to know your spouse better by making choices for them while they make choices for you!
  • Power Outage Date Night – Turn off the lights and turn off the electronics because it is date night by candlelight tonight—no electricity allowed.
  • The Date Wheel – This makes planning a date as easy as spinning a wheel! Go ahead! Give it a spin!
  • Backyard Camping Date – Whether you’re an “outdoorsy” person or not, you’ll love this backyard campout date! You can make it as rugged or as comfortable as you like and the best part is you don’t even have to leave your backyard!
  • Comedy Date Night – Laughter really is the best medicine So get ready to channel your inner comedian for a night full of fun and laughter! It’s time to let loose and have some fun!
  • Tie-Dye Date Night – Get ready to get GROOVY! This Tie-Dye Date Night is a brilliant idea for a date night that is the complete opposite of your usual dinner and a movie!
  • Facebook Get To Know You Game – Normally we would suggest putting away your electronic devices and to get off social media for date night… but this time pull out the phones, pull out the computers, get on Facebook and have some fun!
  • Family History Date – How much do you know about your spouse’s family? There is a good chance you have met a grandparent or two but what do you about their great-grandparents? What do you know about YOUR great-grandparents? This date is a great way to get to know your spouse’s roots as well as your own.
  • After-Dark Scavenger Hunt – Scavenger hunts are super fun on their own, but add the challenge of a nighttime hunt and you have yourself an evening of fun!
  • Time to Unplug Date Night – Make a plan to put all technology out of sight and out of mind – spend a night where it really is just the two of you.
  • The Ultimate Lip Syncing Date – It’s time to put your lip-syncing skills on display for this super fun and hilarious date night! Grab your spouse and get ready to put those lips to work!
  • YouTube Date Night – YouTube is a great place to find videos on just about any topic. This date is full of fun activities and challenges for you to complete while you watch YouTube!

Movie Date Night In

Sometimes you want to have an at home date night, but you just want to relax and watch a movie… check out some of these fun ways to make a movie night into a fun and memorable movie date night at home!

Movie Date Night At Home

  • Double Feature Date NightOne of the easiest date nights to do with your spouse is watching a movie, but this time, make movie watching something different and special!
  • Family Movie Night – Are you a mom, dad, or kid who LOVES movies? If so then grab some snacks and spend some time with the fam! Family Movie Night is the perfect stay at home date night!
  • Fixer Upper Date Night – Get your creativity on and channel your inner Chip & Johanna. It’s DIY time!
  • The Walking Dead Date Night – Zombies, mystery, and suspense…. what more could you want out of a date night? This would be a great at home date night right around Halloween!
  • “Lost” Themed Date – Get “LOST” with your spouse for date night and relive this classic show in all its glory!
  • The CSI: Love Edition Date – Instead of watching actors solve a crime on TV grab your spouse and some friends and solve a “real” crime!
  • The Bachelor or The Bachelorette Viewing Party – Hosting a Bachelor or Bachelorette party with these printables is easy and so much fun! Gather your Bachelor and Bachelorette loving friends and enjoy some good old reality TV.
  • Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle Date – Cowabunga dude!! Grab a pizza and get ready for an awesome day of Teenaged Mutant Ninja Turtles!
  • Harry Potter Marathon – Who doesn’t love a good Harry Potter movie night?! Enjoy an entire night of Harry Potter fun with these adorable printables and ready-to-go ideas!
  • Scary Movie BINGO – Pick a scary movie and mark off a bingo card when cliche scary moments happen! How fun is that?!
  • Pitch Perfect Date Night – Were you part of an a cappella group in college? If not these films probably make you wish you were! Pitch Perfect and Pitch Perfect 2 are perfect date night movies because they have something for everyone!
  • Superhero Movie Marathon – Cuddle up, select your favorite series of superhero films, and settle in for a super fun movie marathon!
  • UFC Fight Night Date – Fights usually tear people apart, but we are using this one to bring you and your love closer together!
  • Star Trek Date Night – Calling all Trekkies! We have a date night designed just for you that is all about Star Trek!
  • Ghostbusters Movie Date – If there is something strange in your neighborhood, who you gonna call? Ghostbusters! Get ready to enjoy this Ghostbuster-filled date night.
  • Backyard Movie Night – It’s time for a Backyard Movie Night! Invite some of your favorite couples, family members, or make it an intimate night for two!
  • Believe It or Not Date Night! – Do you remember watching Ripley’s Believe It or Not? People can do some pretty amazing… and sometimes crazy things! This date night will leave you truly questioning if you Believe It or Not!?
  • Star Wars Movie Date Night – Long, long ago in a galaxy far, far away… (or maybe not so long ago!) you and your sweetie fell in love. Keep that love alive and strong with another creative date night!
  • Dine-in & Drive Movie Night – Check out these 50’s movie ideas and create your own diner and drive-in date night at home!

Romantic Night Ideas

Just for this night, put aside the roles of Mom and Dad and remember what it was like to be dating when you first met! These are some amazing at home date night ideas that are full of romance! Rekindle your fire tonight and you might want to close your bedroom door!

Romantic Date Ideas At Home

  • Secret Love Notes – Using various secret codes, write love notes to each other and then decode them!
  • Cuddle Kit for 2 – Everything you need for an evening of cuddling all in one place. Snuggle up and get cozy!
  • Love Shack – Turn your bedroom into your very own love shack! Your spouse will be anxious to enter!
  • Je T’aime Hotel – Turn your master bedroom into a suite at a fancy French hotel! Nothing invites romance more than your own, private sanctuary!
  • Romantic Rooftop – If you have a house that allows, set up a romantic evening on your roof! Sometimes you have to get creative to get some alone time!
  • Loveseat Lounge – Sit back and relax as you convert your living room and your couch into a lounge for two. This is perfect for a night of relaxing and romance!
  • Spa Night – Unwind with these tips for a night at the spa.
  • Spouse Sleepover – Remember the days of sleeping over at your BFF’s house? Now you can have just as much fun with your spouse!
  • Patio Prom Date – Did you marry your high school sweetheart? If you didn’t, no worries! With this date, you can go back in time and have prom with the person of your dreams!
  • Recreate Your First Date – Do you remember your first date with your spouse? Heart racing, clammy hands, the excitement! Recreate your first date!
  • Moonlight Picnic Date – We’ve come up with a romantic picnic for two under the moonlight! Just picture it: a warm summer night, twinkling stars, a delicious dinner! Boom–ROMANTIC! And check out this darling picnic basket!
  • Indoor Fort Ideas – Bust out those blankets and get ready for a night of fort-building fun!

Game Night At Home Date Ideas

Game night is always a great option for a date night in! Here are some fun and unique date nights to get you started. Make game night special… bring out the laughter, the crazy and the fun with these games.

Game Night At Home Date Nights

  • All About Us Charades – No talking aloud in this date night. Act out clues to help your spouse guess the answer.
  • 50+ Games for 2 With a Deck of Cards! – My spouse and I love to play card games. This post has over 50 new game ideas. All you need is a deck of cards!
  • Couple’s Password – Have you watched the game show Password? Well even if you haven’t we know you will love it! We have everything prepared and ready to go. Are you ready to start guessing?
  • The Newlywed Game – Get ready for a night of laughter as you try to guess what your spouse will answer about you. This date night is based on the classic television game show. OR, we have the NOT-so-Newlywed version!
  • Heads Up Spouse Edition – The Heads Up Forehead Game is a hilarious guessing game that requires some serious communication skills as you try to help your spouse guess the card that is on their forehead.
  • Let’s Make A Deal – Let’s Make a Deal Group Date will have you jumping up and down, getting advice from the audience {AKA your friends}, and laughing the night away with your sweetie.
  • Fun 2-Player Games for Date Night – We’ve gathered all our favorite 2-player games into one neat, little list! Check these games out and plan a fun game night with your spouse!
  • The Price is Right Game Date Night – We have created a ready-to-play version of “The Price is Right” that you can do for a fun date night with your spouse or even as a group date night with your favorite couples! Are you ready to play?
  • This or That Date Night Game – This date night game is ALL about options and choosing your absolute favorites! Are you ready to choose? Don’t worry, all choices lead to fun!
  • DIY Jeopardy Game for Couples – See how well you know your spouse with this spin-off of the classic game show Jeopardy.
  • Couple’s Cranium Date Night Game – Board games are such a great way to connect with your spouse and this Diva version of the well known classic Cranium is designed specifically to do just that!
  • Couples Catchy Phrases Party Game – This fun guessing game inspired by catchphrase is a fast-paced fun date. The theme of this party game: love and marriage. With five categories worth of digital cards, you’ll be laughing with your friends all night long!
  • Couples Win It In A Minute – Win it in a minute games are SO fun and easy to make into a great date night with your spouse OR all your couple friends.

At Home Date Ideas with Food

Date night and food go hand in hand! In fact, all the best date nights have food! So let’s stop talking and start eating already…

At Home Date Nights with Food

  • Couple’s Cafe Dinner Date – If you are already planning on making dinner tonight, which I’m sure you are, then just print these off and turn it into a date! Super easy right?
  • Name That Treat – Put your taste buds to the test as you try to identify a tasty treat.
  • Fondue Date Night – Who doesn’t love fruit dipped in chocolate?! Fondue is always a good idea so melt some chocolate, cut up some fruit and get the fondue party started!
  • Dessert-Off Date Night – Nothing goes together better than dessert and a little competition! Grab your friends and let the cook-off begin!
  • Travel-Themed Progressive Dinner Party – If you love to travel and enjoy different cultures, get out with friends and eat good food, this is the date for you! Eat homemade food inspired by different countries as you “progress” from course to course and from house to house with a group of friends!
  • Taste the Rainbow Date – This easy-to-prep date night is the perfect way to connect and add color to your love life, while also allowing you to indulge in a little extra sweetness!
  • You’ve Stolen A Pizza My Heart – Nothing can go wrong on a date night with pizza. If you’re looking for a fun and relaxing date or a romantic at home date, this is a date night you’ll enjoy!
  • Chocolate Tasting Date Night – Did someone say CHOCOLATE? If you are a chocoholic, as I’m sure you probably are, this date is for you (and your spouse too, of course)! Grab a bunch of QUALITY chocolate bars or other chocolates and have a chocolate tasting!
  • Build a Burger BBQ Date Night – Nothing beats backyard grilling! For this date, let fate decide how you build your burger!
  • Iron Chef Date Night – Turn a secret ingredient into a delicious dish in this fun date inspired by Iron Chef.
  • Green Eggs and Ham Date – This Dr. Seuss-inspired date will be so much fun. Grab your green yolked eggs and ham and read a classic with your spouse!
  • Caramel Apple Party Date Night – A sweet, yet tart, apple dipped in creamy caramel, then dipped in chocolate, then dipped in toppings for more yumminess… how can you say no??!
  • Smores Bar Date Night – Traditional s’mores are a delicious treat in and of themselves but pair this dessert with our fun date night idea and you’ve got an evening of tasty treats AND fun ahead!
  • Cake Date Night for Two – It is time to eat some cake! You’re going to love treating yourself (and your spouse) to a date night of guilt-free indulgence! No excuses, no worries!
  • S’mores Dessert Date Ideas – S’mores at home!? Yes, please! We have tons of S’mores dessert date ideas in this post. Check it out for S’more fun!

Active At Home Date Ideas

Sometimes its fun to do something to get you moving. So here are a few active date night ideas you can do at home!

Active At Home Date Ideas

  • A Date That Scores! – Is your spouse a sports fanatic? This themed date is perfect for basketball fanatics!
  • Indoor Snowball Fight Date Idea – Have a snowball fight inside without the cold and wet! So if you aren’t a fan of cold or live somewhere where it doesn’t snow but still want to enjoy a good snowball fight then this date is for you!
  • “SOAK” Up The Sun – Who doesn’t love a good water fight? This date makes an ordinary squirt gun fight extraordinary!
  • Nerf Wars Date – Enjoy an epic night of nerf gun wars! See who is the better aim as you complete different unique and clever challenges!
  • Spring Olympics – Watching Olympic athletes and hearing their stories is so inspiring! We love the competition and the spirit of the Olympics so we figured it was time to put together an Olympics date so that we can enjoy the Olympics right now!
  • Create Your Own Pep Rally Date – Calling all football fans! Get everything you need to create your own pep rally and unleash your inner football fan!
  • DIY Escape Room Date Night – I’m sure you have heard of or maybe even done an escape room. This is the Divas’ version of an escape room where you have to solve puzzles and riddles in order to find the key!
  • Backyard Scavenger Hunt – Take a date to the backyard with a little kissing tag, twister, cloud watching and other fun activities.

Sexy and Romantic Ideas for Couples

The kids are tucked safely in their rooms and its time to take your spouse to YOUR OWN room for a little spouse play time! We have some fun and sexy games for a date night with your spouse behind closed (and probably locked) doors! 

Sexy At Home Date Nights

  • Sensual Massage – Romance will ensue with not just any old massage, but a sensual massage. Relax, unwind and connect with your spouse!
  • 2 Minutes in Heaven – Set your timer for the best 2 minutes of your life! Roll the die to reveal what you will be doing during your 2 minutes in heaven.
  • Guess The Flavor – Get ready for lip lock time with these unique chapsticks that, when lips touch, create new flavors.
  • A Steamy Bucket List – Start tonight making and checking off your own personal bucket list of bedroom wishes!
  • Bedroom Value Menu – Have fun selecting your choice of playtime combinations with this clever bedroom menu.
  • Romantic Room Service – Choose from a variety of options for what type of night awaits you in your fantasy suite. You could use our Sexy Gift Guide to add some fun!
  • Sexy Matching Game – Spice up sexy time with a game of memory… not just any many, Sexy Match Up!!!
  • Win It In A Minute Sexy Games – Not only is this a sexy date it is also hilarious! These minute to win it games will have you on the floor laughing!
  • Love Is Sweet Bedroom Game – If you and your spouse love to play board games then check out this post! This is not your ordinary board game… it’s much sexier! Have fun!
  • Strip Horse – Add a little competition to the bedroom with a friendly game of horse – strip horse!
  • Sex Box – If your spouse is a gamer then this Sexbox date is perfect! It’s time to turn off the Xbox and turn on your spouse!
  • Follow Me Sexy Tease – Lead your spouse to the bedroom with a sexy and suggestive invite and pathway.
  • Shake or Dare: Bedroom Game – We’re sure you’ve NEVER played a bedroom game as delicious as this! If playing “dirty” is your thing, then this bedroom game is sure to hit the spot!
  • Bedroom Taboo – This fun and flirty bedroom game will engage both the heart and the mind. You’ve never seen taboo like this before with words all about love and romance!
  • The Game of Love – Surprise your spouse as you pull back the covers to reveal a DIY bedroom game that your spouse will LOVE! Not up for the DIY? No problem, check out the done for you way here!
  • Jenga Love Game – See how your love stacks up! This “Sexy Jenga” date night requires a gentle touch and will result in a night filled with fun, romance, laughter and maybe even a little sexy time!
  • A Relaxing Date Night For Two – Sometimes date night needs to just be all about relaxing. If you are in need of some relaxation then this date is perfect!
  • Go Picasso! {Blacklights in the Bedroom} – Turn out the lights and turn ON the blacklights for some artistic fun in the dark!
  • You Played Your Cards Right – Card playing just got sexy! Invite your spouse to the bedroom for an intimate card game or two!

And there it is! Over 100 different activities you can enjoy with your spouse after the kids are in bed! No excuses for not spending some quality time with your spouse tonight! And don’t forget to check out our guide for even more great ideas! We also have a spicy gift guide, your babe will love!

If kids {or anything else} is making it hard for you and your spouse to enjoy date night, check out these Tips for Making Date Night Happen and to make sure that your evening at home goes just right try these 5 Tips for Making Your Date Night At Home a Success!



About the Author: Sarina

I met my Prince Charming when I was 15 years old and 12 years later we created our own happily ever after. Together we enjoy traveling the world, and, of course, going on creative dates! I am a former theatre teacher who now stays at home with a handsome baby boy. I love dancing, photography & chocolate!

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  1. Love the fun ideas shared on the website, however, some of us that really love your ideas have older kids. On the weekends, my husband and I tend to head to bed before our kids do. Please do some research for couples trying to reconnect with teenagers in the house. Most of your ideas are geared towards couples with children who need babysitters. My kids are ARE the babysitters for others!

    1. Nikki – this is such a great idea! We try to cater to what our readers ask us… and a LOT of our audience have little ones running around. We can definitely look into what you are suggesting. Are you hoping to find family activity ideas? To bring the family closer? We do have our 101 Conversation Starters for around the dinner table. One idea my family did growing up no matter HOW old we were was a weekly family night. Every Monday, we all stayed home and did something FUN together. There was usually a treat involved {MAJOR motivation for the teens}, a mini-lesson of some sort… usually something my parents wanted to teach us {i.e. self-esteem, manners, respect, etc} and then the FUN! We’d go on bike rides, play touch football outside, play games, watch fun movies, CREATE our OWN movies, etc. I loved that my parents were always super involved. That may be something you guys could start?

      One other idea would be Daddy/Daughter Dates & Mother/Son Dates… I know a lot of my friends do that and the kids LOVE that one-on-one time with a parent, especially if there are a lot of kids in the family. There were 6 kids in my family growing up, so my parents didn’t do that but once a month my dad would do a “Father’s Interview.” He’d pull each kiddo aside and just TALK! I loved it. He’d basically catch up on everything in our lives… how we were doing, what we were worried/concerned about, who we loved hanging out with, what made us super happy, what GOOD we’d done in the world recently. Since he was working a lot, this was his way of making sure he spent time with each child and was connected to them. My mom was home when we got home from school and we always talked to her when we ate a snack.

      I think the most important thing is to set aside regular family time each week… and make it a HABIT, and make it FUN so the kids want to spend time with you. The closer you are to your kids, the easier it is to keep them out of trouble AND the easier it is for them to GO to you when they ARE in trouble. 😉

      I hope that helps! Let me/us know if you had anything else in mind you would like us to brainstorm and I’m sure we can put a post together for ya! XOXO

  2. My husband and I are trying different date ideas after our kids went to bed. Thanks for these, we’ll add this up to our list. My favorite is the power outage date night. My husband loves candles. I planning to buy vintage candle holders for our date nights.